Losing yet another friend?

[Sasha22]

I don’t understand if this is meant to be advice for my mindset or if it’s critiquing my character.

Absolutely meant to inspire - I think it's a pretty cool song. Not at all meant as a critique of you.

 

[Markness]

Why would you need to do that?

You don't think they're observant enough to realize
the insufficiency of those concepts as a way to look at
life?

I want to show them that I am not a loser.

They seem to take those concepts and run with them.

 

[Markness]

I don’t know how much more I can take.

 

[Ella Spell]

Where I come from, we respect elders and value and cherish the wisdom and experiences that they generously share with us.

We do not refer to them as "some old woman". That is incredibly demeaning and regrettable.

Where I come from we respect women regardless of their age.

 

[Rodafina]

I want to show them that I am not a loser.

@Markness

What do you think of yourself?

How would you describe yourself to others?

 

[Masked Man]

Where I come from, we respect elders and value and cherish the wisdom and experiences that they generously share with us.

We do not refer to them as "some old woman". That is incredibly demeaning and regrettable.

Agreed - that "some old woman" is a human being, just like everyone else. If someone can't treat another human being with basic respect I don't know what to say.

 

[Sasha22]

Agreed - that "some old woman" is a human being, just like everyone else. If someone can't treat another human being with basic respect I don't know what to say.

Some of the fittest-looking women at my gym are over 50. My heroes.

 

[Markness]

@Markness

What do you think of yourself?

How would you describe yourself to others?

I think I was born in the wrong place and I am often misunderstood. My detractors (Some of whom have posted in this thread are among them.) also enjoy my suffering and want me to continue to struggle.

I am someone who is introverted and wants to live authentically.

 

[VictorR]

I think I was born in the wrong place and I am often misunderstood.

You are not alone in feeling that way.

I am someone who is introverted and wants to live authentically.

It's okay to be introverted. As for living authentically - being yourself is the best way to live so that's good.

My detractors (Some of whom have posted in this thread are among them.) also enjoy my suffering and want me to continue to struggle.

I'm very sorry you feel that way.

If I'm to speak from my heart, it really hurt me, as someone who tries to provide support in general, to read that.

 

[Ella Spell]

Go visit her if you want.

It’s not that far.

I have friends all over the world.

 

[Markness]

It’s never going to happen. She stopped responding to me and she never messages me herself.

 

[tree]

Looks like you over-estimated the profundity of meeting Jennifer.

 

[Markness]

Looks like you over-estimated the profundity of meeting Jennifer.

When she stopped responding to me and never reached out to me herself, that pretty much told me I am not important to her.

 

[tree]

How many times were you in her company?

 

[Markness]

How many times were you in her company?

Only once.

 

[Misty Avich]

Mini heart attack when I saw that member until I realised her post was last September.

Anyway, yes I understand how frustrating that is for you. It might have been an opportunity for you to meet that special someone through Jennifer, as you said she had some female friends she could hook you up with. Life is not fair.

 

[tree]

Only once.

You definitely were over-estimating the situation.

 

[Markness]

You definitely were over-estimating the situation.

But why did you suggest I visit her?

 

[tree]

But why did you suggest I visit her?

You were gung-ho about having met her.

What did you expect?
That I would say *Hey dude, you met a girl and had fun one evening with her.
For sure, don't try to follow up on that.*???

 

[Markness]

Mini heart attack when I saw that member until I realised her post was last September.

Anyway, yes I understand how frustrating that is for you. It might have been an opportunity for you to meet that special someone through Jennifer, as you said she had some female friends she could hook you up with. Life is not fair.

I am sorry for indirectly causing that.

Yes, I don’t understand why she said she intended on introducing me to her friends and that we would hang out only to move away.