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But Finances DO Matter!

The other day at church I was talking with a woman about euthanizing a terminally ill cat. She, like so many people I've talked to lately, said that when it was her time to go she hoped someone would be so compassionate as to do the same thing for her. When I said that I had a problem with the idea of euthanizing terminally ill people, she visibly stiffened. I could see the defensiveness building in her eyes. And this is nothing new.

Yes, I can understand why someone might think it was the compassionate thing to treat a terminally ill person the way you would treat an animal in the same situation, but--and this is what I told her--I can see the potential for a lot of misuse. "Have you read the assisted suicide laws of Oregon and Washington?" she snapped. No. I don't have to. I know human nature. I mean, hey, we are dealing with a situation right here in West Michigan where a mother tried to kill her own child because that child was too much to handle. And there are a lot of people saying she shouldn't be punished for that. If you are going to talk about assisted suicide or mercy killing or euthanasia or whatever you want to call it, I want to know what kind of safeguards you intend to have in place to prevent abuse. Because the dead don't talk.

So I said to her, "well, yes, I have taken my animals to the vet to be put to sleep before and will most likely do it again, because I don't want them to suffer--BUT, you need to know, that compassion is not the only factor in my decision. Finances count, too."

Oh, was she shocked! The very idea, that I would frankly say that cost is also a factor in deciding what kind of healthcare to give or not give my animals. She mentioned pet insurance. Well, ok, but maybe I can't afford pet insurance. Maybe I don't want pet insurance. Like it or not, my choice--and that is what it is--to put my animals to sleep for any reason whatsoever is one that is legal. I told her, "I have the power of life or death over them. They don't know it, but I do." When I take my animals in to the vet to be euthanized, I am breaking no laws. Animals do not have any right to life (unless perhaps they are endangered species). And I haven't seen anyone picketing veterinary clinics because they kill animals. But yes, finances do play a big part in my decision. And anyone who thinks otherwise is living in a bubble.

So please do not tell me that when it comes to assisted suicide that these same factors will not also play a role in the decision-maker's decision. I mentioned that I had heard that insurance companies were refusing to pay for cancer treatments, but they were willing to pay for assisted suicide. Oh, she said, insurance companies won't pay for experimental therapies. Denial, denial, denial. Of course there is nothing to fear, you don't have to worry about people being euthanized against their will, etc., etc., etc. No, you have nothing to fear IF you are relatively well-off, if you belong to the right racial and ethnic group, if you are not disabled, etc., etc., etc. You can be assured that your choice will be your choice and not someone else deciding for you.

If I recall correctly, right after Hurricane Katrina, there was a scandal when it was discovered that one of the hospitals had given several extremely ill patients terminal overdoses rather than try to evacuate them--and that this happened after the storm, when help was on its way. Of course the ethicists wrung their hands saying that there was no way they could judge what was the right thing to do in the circumstances. And if I recall correctly, not one person who was involved in giving the overdoses ever served one minute of prison time. Talk about sending a message! I am willing to bet that those euthanized were poor and had nobody watching their backs. Well, they are dead now. Whether they wanted to be or not. But people like this woman who think that allowing people to choose assisted suicide is fine and dandy do not want to talk about cases like this. Why the hell not? If we are going to put this on the table, then put everything on the table!

There is another thing to consider. Because animals have traditionally not been considered to have the same right to life as humans, veterinary medicine has lagged far, far behind human medicine. My friend was shocked that I would even consider costs in treating my animals. But it has long been a fact of life. When the racehorse Barbaro broke his leg during the Preakness, the reason that his owners fought so hard to save him was that first, they had the money to do so, and also, his potential worth as a sire made it a reasonable gamble. No doubt they loved their horse. I'm not saying they didn't. But had Barbaro been one of the cheap claimers in any of the other races on that afternoon's program, he would have been euthanized on the spot and all that anyone outside of the racing world would know about it is maybe a small article in the Baltimore paper. It makes a difference who you are. When you start opening up assisted suicide as an option, when you start lowering humans to the level of animals, you are opening up something that could be very nasty.

As my mother likes to say, "Be careful what you ask for. You might get it."

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Over here, I think we're seeing the exact opposite. We in fact have a political party that wants to give animals rights as well. I'm in general not that interested in all those environmental type of parties so I don't really care about their agenda (since all I see is "environment this, reduction in gas that, animals such and such").

But it's an interesting notion if we end up giving animals (equal) rights. Makes me wonder if these animals also have obligations towards "owners" and wouldn't, if animals are treated like equals, that fall under some kind of slavery act. It would also mean an animal would have to be autonomous as a "being" to provide for himself within society (and most likely, just like everyone else in society, carry their weight and get a job). Yes, it's that ridiculous, but these are the implications that I can come up with.

If animals are given rights, the entire notion of "bringing your pet to the vet to put down" sparks the same debate as assisted suicide. And at some point I wouldn't be surprised that some people get treated worse than animals. If anything it should be equal, not worse in my humble opinion.

As for the finances a pet brings, pet insurance, and stuff like that. There's a reason I don't have any pets. Nor have any costly habits (like smoking for example). I just can't keep up with that kind of financial obligation on a daily/weekly basis. I always roll my eyes when someone on facebook is complaining how her cat had to get some shots and it cost her double digits. It seems, that just with children, people want to have pets, and worry about financial problems regarding those later. And if it eventually ends up like that, people start stressing out over money.

On the other hand, if people would be that aware of their financial obligations they would get themselves into, and maybe this is from an aspie perspective, no one would ever have children or have pets, unless they have unlimited wealth. And we're seeing the exact opposite; animals being treated badly because there's no resources to treat them the way they should, and children go the exact same route. Weirdly enough we do have services that will intervene if you treat children badly (it might be on purpose, or just because you don't have your life straight), but there's no such thing with pets (or animals in general). And if someone tells me "well, you can insure your pet with a healthcare type of program"... then I wonder, why don't we make these monthly expenses mandatory for anyone who has children as well. Yes, I'm well aware that this might pose a problem in terms of finances, but it would surely knock some sense into a lot of people who simply don't have the resources but start a family or get pets because "everyone does".

I totally agree with you that some people live in a bubble if they don't consider finances... but then again, it might be the same people who live in that bubble made out of loans and think the world is made out of infinite wealth. People should be more aware of limited resources. It's fine to support a certain amount of "unlucky" few, but as long as everyone keeps putting people out there and expects society to sort it out financially, that's where the problem is beyond containment in a humane fashion. And that's most likely what happened in that hospital during Katrina as well. Ethical, no... practical... absolutely.
 
Yes, I am aware that the animal rights movement is much stronger in Europe than in the United States, because this has enormous implications for my business. Already we are finding it harder to do business with European pharmaceutical companies for that very reason.

The thing is with children versus pets, yes, both are an expense. In my case it is an expense I choose to take on. However, the big difference is with a pet I can opt out of my "responsibility" at any time. One of my cats was recently diagnosed with squamous cell carcinoma, an aggressive form of cancer. After discussing all the options with my vet, taking her up to Michigan State for chemotherapy (a 2 hour car ride one way), and so forth, we decided that the best outcome would be to keep her comfortable untll the time comes to put her down, which may be fairly soon. If this were a child, however, I would be "forced" to take the aggressive route, trips to the hospital for chemo, etc. I am not arguing that I ought to have the same choice regarding a child as I do my cat. But I can see others making that same argument, and for the same reasons you said about what happened in that hospital during Katrina ... ethical, no, practical ... absolutely. That is one reason I chose to have cats rather than children. If I was bound by the same constraints regarding my cats as I would a child, no, I would not have them.

I am not aware of any animal rights activists campaigning against euthanasia for animals or arguing that animals should have the same right to live. If so, they would be picketing veterinary clinics and animal shelters, and that is not happening here. So apparently it is all right to put down an animal. Although I understand some of the more radical ones want to do away with animal ownership all together, and that, as you said, raises a whole interesting set of issues. Where I see this headed is that "rights", including the "right to life" will be granted to animals and humans as long as they are able to contribute in some way to society and as long as they are not dependent on others (read "a burden"). In other words, the weakest among us, those unable to defend themselves, will find themselves at the mercy of others.
 

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