WARNING: May be offensive to some so if you offend easily, DO NOT READ.
A little bit about me: I'm a 26 year old, well groomed, nice guy who works seasonal jobs and even though I'm not a drop dead gorgeous guy, I'm not exactly ugly either (even been told I'm good-looking)and I work out and I treat women right (Formerly) and despite all these qualities, I couldn't snag a girlfriend or even a FWB. All the girls would always go after the jerk or alpha male and take advantage of me and I never could understand it as I was doing everything I was taught to by everyone to treat women right and show them kindness, but they never showed genuine interests in me.
At first, I thought it was just me being a failure, so I tried going out to night clubs, churches and even studied pick-up artist methods to up my game. I got some results, but it was either temporarily or even embarrassing moments, so I practically gave up on women. One day, I went online to see if anyone's experienced the same phenomenon and stumbled on a reddit posts and heard about MGTOW for the very first time: I cried and was angry for all the lies that society fed me all these years, telling me that: "If you don't get a girlfriend or laid, you're a failure!" and so I spent all month reading/studying it. Here was this philosophy and movement detailing that men are walking away and living life to their fullest without concern for society's approval. It instantly clicked with me as I've been living this life on and off over the years, but could never put a name on it. I was content when I wasn't concerned with women, but when I did place women as a main importance in my life, I was always depressed or filled with drama. Without this knowledge, I'm not sure what would've became of me as I fell into depression multiple times of the years and contemplated suicide, but knowing that they are others out there gives me hope to move on and one day become a successful man.
Note: I'm not recruiting for MGTOW and you don't have to accept it, but I just want others to be aware of it as I noticed that there are some male aspies who struggle with this just as I did in the past.
A little bit about me: I'm a 26 year old, well groomed, nice guy who works seasonal jobs and even though I'm not a drop dead gorgeous guy, I'm not exactly ugly either (even been told I'm good-looking)and I work out and I treat women right (Formerly) and despite all these qualities, I couldn't snag a girlfriend or even a FWB. All the girls would always go after the jerk or alpha male and take advantage of me and I never could understand it as I was doing everything I was taught to by everyone to treat women right and show them kindness, but they never showed genuine interests in me.
At first, I thought it was just me being a failure, so I tried going out to night clubs, churches and even studied pick-up artist methods to up my game. I got some results, but it was either temporarily or even embarrassing moments, so I practically gave up on women. One day, I went online to see if anyone's experienced the same phenomenon and stumbled on a reddit posts and heard about MGTOW for the very first time: I cried and was angry for all the lies that society fed me all these years, telling me that: "If you don't get a girlfriend or laid, you're a failure!" and so I spent all month reading/studying it. Here was this philosophy and movement detailing that men are walking away and living life to their fullest without concern for society's approval. It instantly clicked with me as I've been living this life on and off over the years, but could never put a name on it. I was content when I wasn't concerned with women, but when I did place women as a main importance in my life, I was always depressed or filled with drama. Without this knowledge, I'm not sure what would've became of me as I fell into depression multiple times of the years and contemplated suicide, but knowing that they are others out there gives me hope to move on and one day become a successful man.
Note: I'm not recruiting for MGTOW and you don't have to accept it, but I just want others to be aware of it as I noticed that there are some male aspies who struggle with this just as I did in the past.
