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Outliers - focus on the ability and provide access to opportunities

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I think we should focus on the ability of the autistic individuals, instead of the can't.

We are living in unprecedented tough times. Never before did unemployment rate soar up so high since the Great Depression. And also, never before did economic growth sag. Worst of all, governments, unlike in the past, owe money to other governments, who hold countries hostage by possible military actions in Korea, Taiwan, Pakistan and South Sudan.

Universities, in my parents' time in Singapore, used to be something which people realistically achieve after graduating from high school. It used to be very easy to get into universities. Never did we know that universities evolved into first something that middle class families use to keep their middle class status, and then now, it becomes a rich person's toy. Other than the tippy top Ivy Leagues (which do recruit alumni and well-connected people also), universities fail to provide more opportunities for its students. So unless you are the top of the social classes, you cannot graduate form university without debt or a certain social cost - with or without autism.

In addition, there is no free healthcare like those days, there is no social security in a world of debt - so how now?

In such times, who will care about the autistic individuals? Who will care about the talents they can bring to the table? If we say we can't, we're not totally right, though there is some element of truth:

So what I am saying here with this long blog, is don't focus on your "can'ts". Focus on your "cans". Look for the outliers. If you admire a successful person, what are the factors--all the factors--in his or her life that accounted for their success. Are these same factors present in your life? If not, maybe a change in plans is in order.
- Spinning Compass

So we do not just need social skills...

Then what do we need?

Maybe we need more opportunities? If we are already diagnosed, maybe we need to beg for more opportunities because they do give employers an indication of what we already not are, that they may view as a liability?

Maybe we need to forget that we had autism or Asperger's Syndrome? (Dr. Michael Burry, Prof. Vernon Smith and Clay Marzo, pro surfer, all were diagnosed with Asperger's after they got their degrees or success)

Or maybe we should just focus on what we can do -

Seriously! What can we do that the other people do not do, and what can we do that we can add value to society, and then impact our world?

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We definitely need more opportunities, and the ability to recognize opportunities. Unfortunately we are not taught how to do so, or how to create opportunities. I wish I had better answers to your questions. All too often it seems like life is like an exclusive club, we are not allowed in because "they" don't want us in.
 
Yep. I wish we have more patient people who give us the membership access to the club of success.
 

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