Well, the more I read the more I wonder.....
ASPIE things I am learning to accept..
little eye contact
no touching
no planning ahead
be VERY direct in you questions
learn to deal with obsessions
do not call him on the phone
do not text long texts
smile cause otherwise something must be wrong
Me - NT trying to figure out whether he is happy because I have never seen him smile...
Our typical conversations
Me. I know you don't want to look at me but please stop looking at the phone for a second...
Him..why
Me...cause I will know you are listening to me...
him...I am listening
Me...I just want a hug ...2 seconds...
him...umm why...not now
Me... I had a bad day and it will make me feel better
him...if I have too
Me....can I meet you in an hour...
him .... maybe
me...what does that mean can I get a yes or no
him...no response....
sunny all day for the next 3 days....
weather channel 24-7
me...lets go out and look at the stars.
him...why...
me...cause it will make me happy
him...I am too tired....
Me..can you kiss me before we make love...
Him...if I have to
Me...just kiss me
Ok this is all very typical for us...I go back to my question...is he happy or just with me because he feels he is suppose to be with someone?
Oh and I really don't think he knows he is an Aspie..
Am I happy...hell I don't know...LOL...I know I would be happier if I thought he was happy..
Dawn
ASPIE things I am learning to accept..
little eye contact
no touching
no planning ahead
be VERY direct in you questions
learn to deal with obsessions
do not call him on the phone
do not text long texts
smile cause otherwise something must be wrong
Me - NT trying to figure out whether he is happy because I have never seen him smile...
Our typical conversations
Me. I know you don't want to look at me but please stop looking at the phone for a second...
Him..why
Me...cause I will know you are listening to me...
him...I am listening
Me...I just want a hug ...2 seconds...
him...umm why...not now
Me... I had a bad day and it will make me feel better
him...if I have too
Me....can I meet you in an hour...
him .... maybe
me...what does that mean can I get a yes or no
him...no response....
sunny all day for the next 3 days....
weather channel 24-7
me...lets go out and look at the stars.
him...why...
me...cause it will make me happy
him...I am too tired....
Me..can you kiss me before we make love...
Him...if I have to
Me...just kiss me
Ok this is all very typical for us...I go back to my question...is he happy or just with me because he feels he is suppose to be with someone?
Oh and I really don't think he knows he is an Aspie..
Am I happy...hell I don't know...LOL...I know I would be happier if I thought he was happy..
Dawn
