Today's topic I'm going to talk about is relationships only because I know this person who really likes that person and as far as I know, it's going round like a continous loop so I thought I'd bring up my own opinion on relationships.
Well relationship now a days, it's like nobody really knows what love is and it just disappoints me and it's all fun and games, well the reality is... It's not, it is nothing like how it seems and it's more complcated then I thought and I know this ever since I went into a relationship with the person who I've been blogging about when I started making these blogs back when these blogs were on Windows Live Spaces.
A true relationship would be the two people being able to trust each other (meaning not to lie and whatever) and it also means having to be comitted.
Those sort of relationships tend to last you for a very long time and you just can't fail to go wrong but it also depends on the two couples themselves since relationships are actually a two way thing and the most important thing is being able to communicate with each other. Without that communication, it would be rather pointless and I would not be able to see how it would even work out?
Now a days, I see cheating with the other parner which is actually not good at all and pretty much ruins their chances of being trusted in a relationship but it would also mean that the other person is not the right type but those are the common things that tends to happen in a relationship but it happens for different types of reasons why, some just do it to show off to their mates that they can get more than 1 girlfriend and that isn't really a good thing at all, it's just lame imo.
My experience however has been in a way good and bad and I've learnt a heck of a lot just from being in one, from someone who had a bad experience, violent and finally, someone who finally understands but she thought that it just would be better off just being friends since we got on more just being friends.
The last broke up hurt me a lot but somehow managed to in a short space of time stand back on my own two feet and I've always been able to just remain friends with my ex but as a matter of fact, I'm just gonna wait until the right time has come and my mind state is fully stable enough to handle certain situations since I seem to struggle with it (which I'm still working on it) and when I'm ready which is most likely gonna be a couple of years time or when I least expect it, at least this time I would know who I am and I should have the strength and the energy to keep positive no matter what goes up and down.
I guess that's my opinion for now.
Well relationship now a days, it's like nobody really knows what love is and it just disappoints me and it's all fun and games, well the reality is... It's not, it is nothing like how it seems and it's more complcated then I thought and I know this ever since I went into a relationship with the person who I've been blogging about when I started making these blogs back when these blogs were on Windows Live Spaces.
A true relationship would be the two people being able to trust each other (meaning not to lie and whatever) and it also means having to be comitted.
Those sort of relationships tend to last you for a very long time and you just can't fail to go wrong but it also depends on the two couples themselves since relationships are actually a two way thing and the most important thing is being able to communicate with each other. Without that communication, it would be rather pointless and I would not be able to see how it would even work out?
Now a days, I see cheating with the other parner which is actually not good at all and pretty much ruins their chances of being trusted in a relationship but it would also mean that the other person is not the right type but those are the common things that tends to happen in a relationship but it happens for different types of reasons why, some just do it to show off to their mates that they can get more than 1 girlfriend and that isn't really a good thing at all, it's just lame imo.
My experience however has been in a way good and bad and I've learnt a heck of a lot just from being in one, from someone who had a bad experience, violent and finally, someone who finally understands but she thought that it just would be better off just being friends since we got on more just being friends.
The last broke up hurt me a lot but somehow managed to in a short space of time stand back on my own two feet and I've always been able to just remain friends with my ex but as a matter of fact, I'm just gonna wait until the right time has come and my mind state is fully stable enough to handle certain situations since I seem to struggle with it (which I'm still working on it) and when I'm ready which is most likely gonna be a couple of years time or when I least expect it, at least this time I would know who I am and I should have the strength and the energy to keep positive no matter what goes up and down.
I guess that's my opinion for now.
