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Work on a Sunday, wife at home ill, bills coming out of my arse, all = Rubbishness.

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How the hell can work be dead... until the moment I sign on and calls start fecking flooding through? What the hell? How is that fair? Bloody buggers!

Does anyone else get really confused when you are trying to do something, like typing or working out number / money and the people you are doing this for just keep f**king talking and will not shut the hell up? This guy I just spoke to just would NOT stop f**king talking. I actually asked him to stop talknig as it was confusing me and I wasn't able to work out what I needed to refund him... Event hat didn't stop him and he just kept going. I understand that people are inquisitive and want to understand these things, but give me time to gather thoughts and actually process what I supposed to be doing instead of hounding me and pushing me into a corner. I hate people man, ergh.

I've really been noticing yet more and more Aspie symptoms. My hatred of unnecessary noise, my confusion and dislike of things such as addiction, how it confuses me the need for women to wear high heels when all they ever do is complain about how much it hurts their feet (Why the f**king hell do it to yourself then? It's not that hard of a situation to get yourself out of???) and other such things that seem so bloody logical to me but are apparently so hard to get an answer to. I know this is MEGA cheap coming from someone who has a lot of problems with other things, but hey haha.

I wonder why these things stress us out so badly, take things so personally and such? I think what I find the hardest, is why it hurts so badly? and not being able to understand the things that are apparently so bastard clear to others?? As long as my assessment process is taking, I'm so enternally happy that something finally being done and looked at and they are trying to help me through everything. I have a meeting on the 17th with the lead guy at the Tavistock Centre (leading place in Europe that deal with these kinds of things) and another Doctor who I assume is going to be the person I will be seeing when I go there???? Who knows, hopefully it will be that, not that they have been really good at telling me what is happening next though, ggggrrrr.

I don't think this blog is gonna be quite consistant with the sentences and such, just more of a "put things down that you think of, when you think of them" instead of the more conherant and consitant blog I was planning on, lolz!

My punctuation sucks balls man, someone said to me (via some social networking site) that I had good punctuation.... God damn did I laugh hard and properly out loud hahaha.

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Love what you said about high heels . . . I'm a woman and I feel that way myself. If it hurts my feet I'm not going to wear it no matter how fashionable it may be. My criteria for shoes is that while looks are important, comfort and safety are more so. The question I ask myself when considering a pair of shoes is: If I am in a parking lot or garage and I need to get away from someone quickly or my car breaks down and I might have to walk to the nearest gas station, can I do it in these shoes? If the answer is no, I don't buy them. Bottom line.

Personally I don't think women have thought about how this complaining about fashionable but painful shoes makes them look. It doesn't make them look intelligent. It doesn't empower them. No, it makes us look stupid, that we set ourselves up for situations and then complain because we won't get out of them. It's not just shoes. I've known a number of supposedly intelligent women who repeatedly find themselves in a fix and then whine I can't when anyone suggests what (to me) are obvious solutions. Then we wonder why we are discriminated against and not taken seriously.
 
LikeyouToMe
That's pretty interesting to hear that from a woman too, thanks for that.

This does lead into controversial ideas and arguements though, like the arguement about women being able to dress how they want without fear of men (or women) forcing themselves on them or unwanted attention. I think that yes there are those utter scum bags out there that will try anything on with whoever they want because they have some self rightous attitude / self entitlement that they can have anything they want, but I think sometimes people, no matter who or what they are, need to be a bit more wise and may be be a lil bit more clever about what they wear and when. If a girl is flanked by 3 17ft muscle bound guys, I'm pretty sure she could wear just a smile and she wouldn't get bothered but if she was with 2 of her 4ft friends with a total combined weight of 8 stone between them all, they are prob gonna get pestered a hell of a lot.

I think the main message is be wise, have fun, do what you want, but remember that you can't change the world and there are the scary people out there that want to harm others. If a nutter is going out there to attack someone, it's gonna happen and no clothes options are gonna change their mind.
 

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