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Recent content by Christian

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    Not Revealing My Feelings

    Welcome to the club, is part of our nice condition, be emotionally close, socially inept, it a hard lesson that I learned in high-school, because I also had the disadvantage of having a facial deformity, so revealing my feelings was a weakness, when my Asperger began to show, it become more easy...
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    Why I can't land a lover.

    Maybe because you are socially inept, of if you have bad luck like me, born with a facial deformation that take four surgeries to correct, because my deformity and my Asperger, most girls in High School see me like a alien, I never clicked with non of them, funny enough, the only type of people...
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    When to tell potential date that you're Autistic?

    I would actually like someone that have Asperger, most people either not understand what is to have autism or totally dismiss it, at least I would have a common ground, and she would understand why I cant express certain emotions, like she does, but living in a little town in the middle of...
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    Telling my spouse kinda backfired

    Is a miracle that you have a spouse in first place, of course, if you are attractive you wont have any problem in attracting people from the opposite sex, but in the emotional level, at least in my personal experience, you must have been black void, sure, you can feel stuff, but love, affection...
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    So Much Difficulty With Normal Functioning Due to Rigidity, Inflexibility, Etc.

    Is a miracle that you let be yourself to be touched, having autism in some degree, make you very uncomfortable with physical contact, affectionate or not, when I was a teenager I hate when people hug me or try to give me a kiss in the check, even that I still socially inept, I tolerate kiss in...
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    So Much Difficulty With Normal Functioning Due to Rigidity, Inflexibility, Etc.

    Well since I was five I was very interested in science, from palaeontology to astronomy, I watched every documentary back in the 90' in the Discovery Channel and Beakman World, I have Asperger, that make me very good in discovering patterns, seeing little details that most people miss and have a...
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    Fellow Gamers, how has gaming helped you in your life?

    Is a good distraction and a good source of inspiration, I have a lot different games, because I write a hobby, sometimes I replay a particular game, so I can experience visually what I need to write, because I write mostly science fiction/fantasy, most of my games are space simulators, Rebel...
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    So Much Difficulty With Normal Functioning Due to Rigidity, Inflexibility, Etc.

    I am very practical with my clothes and with the rest of my things, I never actually cared much for my appearance, I never change my clothes until my clothes become rags, till then I never care to buy new ones, I never care to bother to buy a new computer until my last one broke, the same thing...
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    So Much Difficulty With Normal Functioning Due to Rigidity, Inflexibility, Etc.

    Well autism or Asperger can make you very good for certain things, and very bad for other things, mostly banal and common things that normal people do, I have a part time job in a butcher shop that is part of the family business, even that I know every anatomy part of a cow or a sheep, I never...
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    So Much Difficulty With Normal Functioning Due to Rigidity, Inflexibility, Etc.

    Being rigid and structure is part of having autism and Asperger, I like to have my own routine, hell, I even rigid when I eat, eating meticulously my food, I am rigid when I write, I like to write as a hobby, I always write thirty five pages chapters, with five pages more and less for each...
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    Aspergers, intentional monogamy and the complete inability to understand when flirting is happening

    Maybe he isn't giving her the words that she really wants "I love you", people like us, that is very hard to say those words, because never would sound genuine, because you are emotional empty or better yet, you not actually understand emotions even if you can feel them, I can feel a varied of...
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    Find it impossible to end relationship/stop dating someone due to fear of making wrong choice

    Having anxiety and being obsessive over your choices come with the package of having autism or Asperger, when I become obsessive over a particular puzzle, I spend literal hours trying to solve it, even no sleeping at night, another curse of having Asperger, insomnia and depression, I was in a...
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    Find it impossible to end relationship/stop dating someone due to fear of making wrong choice

    You must be very attractive if you can find a date at all. Having Asperger made me socially inept and all my attempt of relationship failed miserably, partially because I had a facial malformation that really didn't help matters, and even fixed, woman really are rarely interest in me, because...
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    Do you enjoy being an aspie/autist?

    I cant say that I enjoy being an Aspie, since my teenage years having Asperger was more a nightmare to me than a gift, more if you ad that I had the unfortunate to born with a facial deformation that took four surgeries to correct, even that I enjoy learning, being hyper focus nearly obsessive...
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    Aspergers, intentional monogamy and the complete inability to understand when flirting is happening

    Even with that, people never would understand you, because you are social inept, as I am, would take everything that you as an insult or simply reject your conclusion, because not matter how much people say knowledge is power, sometimes people really not like to hear what contradict with their...
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