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Recent content by Chronos101

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    I need some advice

    I do need to be assertive with him. I couldn't really today because it was so sudden and I had no time to prepare for this interaction so I was caught off guard. I've been reading people on the spectrum have issues picking up non verbal cues so maybe thats why. However he has noticed before that...
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    I need some advice

    Oh my god I just met him in the hallways again. This is is very strange because I've never seen him on campus this semester till this day. I have no idea if he was just going to class or looking for me. Hopefully not the latter. He was like "why aren't you texting me" or something in his very...
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    I need some advice

    Thank you for words. They mean a lot! Only he or his parents can change him at this point.
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    I need some advice

    I was trying to give him another chance. However I realize I've already given him to many. Now don't get me wrong, friendships take effort, but not this much effort. He's apologized so much and disregarded those apologies that there is simply no more point in interacting with him anymore...
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    I need some advice

    I don't really think I was making any excuses, just thinking about the possibilities. I know what I need to do, it's just a matter of bringing myself to do it. Again, I essentially agree with all of you guys have said for the most part. There we go. I just blocked him again. This time for good...
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    I need some advice

    Inwardly he still wants me to do what he says. I just know it. His desires are way to pervasive for that not to be the case. Whether or not he tells me that is another thing. It's okay to want things so long as you keep your desires in check in relation to other peoples comfort level. He hasn't...
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    I need some advice

    Also let me clarify something regarding his spam texting. If he texts me and I don't immediately respond. He'll be like "pls respond" and "Eric?" (which is my name) at like 5 minute or ten minute intervals. Sometimes I'm busy so I can't respond. He'll stop when he gets my attention or may stop...
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    I need some advice

    Thanks for the advice Roy. This is his last chance. He's been apologizing to me today for his behaviors in the past, we'll see how that apology holds up. But this is it, if he tries to cross my boundaries once more I'm blocking him. I need to talk to my mom about this though. Earlier today I...
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    I need some advice

    Also, royinpink, everything you have said here is something that I agree with. I'm not sure if his apologies are actually meaningful and he is trying like he claims, or his desires are simply to strong and he can't control them. Either way it's scary and maddening. I'm not even sure If he is...
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    I need some advice

    You are all fantastic. Thank you. Okay, I'll build up the courage and try to talk to my mom. She needs to know in case he tries to pull anything. This person can't drive (suggesting he also has motor issues), so it's not like he could come to my house or follow me around by himself. Thank god...
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    I need some advice

    "Saying no is good for him as well as you. His behavior is socially unacceptable, and the pain he feels (which you are not intentionally inflicting) will probably cause him to reflect on the actions that were unacceptable. He's not stupid, he has the capacity for change." First off thank you...
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    I need some advice

    Thank you for your thoughtful reply. I really appreciate it. At first I had difficulty asserting myself, that's always been one of my flaws. When he's asked to smell me and or hypnotize me I have always given him a firm no (never mind he smelled me anyway). I was more lenient with closing my...
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    I need some advice

    If you would take the time to read this and respond, I would greatly appreciate it. So I'm a 19 year old freshman at a community college whom is currently in his second semester, nothing special. However last semester I met a certain someone and I need advice. Let me give you some backstory...
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