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Recent content by Kapwned

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    AS Friend Lies to Me

    You can read the post above this one but I ended up cutting him out of my life. He made it clear that I was a burden to him. Despite his and other posters impressions of me, my intentions and actions were not what they appeared to be. This was about a week ago, and just today he started sending...
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    AS Friend Lies to Me

    I think you're taking one instance, getting one impression from it, and assuming I am always like this when in fact I clearly stated I am not. That was an issue I had with this friend and it's probably what lead to this whole mess. I don't track him down online. Just because I happened to...
  3. K

    AS Friend Lies to Me

    True. I just feel like I should say something. He's sitting here potentially painting me as a bad guy when all he's doing is potentially going off of some assumption that I can't handle the truth (not intended to be a film reference or humorous). At this point he is walking on thin ice with me...
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    AS Friend Lies to Me

    I don't think it's a habit he's always had. I 'm really good at picking up lies and I do not stick around if someone becomes a habitual liar. I never really had an issue with this before with him (I'm typically really but the way he's been all week just seems off with me and I'm just concerned...
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    AS Friend Lies to Me

    TL;DR: My friend who is on the spectrum lies to me about trivial things. He will tell me he is busy working or he was just sleeping all day when it's obvious he's online and playing video games with other friends. I asked him if I have been bothering him, worrying that perhaps it was me, and he...
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    Spending countless hours on special interests

    That's a bit presumptuous though. NTs can have interests and hobbies that are important to them and make them happy as well. Again, this can be the case for NTs as well. We have passions and hobbies that become our life. I'm a NT and a workaholic too. Until this Christmas I hadn't taken a day...
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    Spending countless hours on special interests

    As a NT I don't mind but you can't neglect life around you while doing so and many of us view it as unfair because even we NTs would like to be able to just close out the world and hide in our interests uninterrupted for hours on end. If that were the case, hardly anyone would be working right...
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    NT needs advice RE: AS ex boyfriend

    I know, I just also want to respect his space. As of right now I think it's a little too soon. I was going to give it about a month. My main concern was how I'd say it but you've helped me figure out how to word it best. I just didn't want to leave too much open to interpretation but I also...
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    NT needs advice RE: AS ex boyfriend

    Thank you very much for your response. I supposed I just wanted the opinion of someone with AS with what I was planning on doing. Normally with break ups I accept it's over and move on, but with him I feel like maybe there is still a chance if only we can mutually acknowledge and understand we...
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    NT needs advice RE: AS ex boyfriend

    I want to inquire on this a little bit if you don't mind. I am trying to come to terms and understand my exes chain of thought and behavior from our own break up (I'm NT, he's AS). You say that you divorced your ex wife because your wife needs something you cannot provide her. These are the...
  11. K

    Post Breakup with BF with AS

    If that's the case then maybe I should talk to him about it soon. Two days after we broke up he sent me a text saying just to make things clear, he just likes to spend time with me and he enjoys my company. I think there is something here he is not realizing he is or isn't doing. Feelings are...
  12. K

    What Are Effective Ways To Verbally Share Feelings With AS Partner?

    This is something I've personally been wondering about this past week. I made a separate thread on my issue but I recently went through a break up with my ex who has AS.
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    Post Breakup with BF with AS

    There is a TL;DR section below. I made a thread on here a bit back about an issue I was having with my boyfriend who is on the spectrum. I got emotional, it leaked out onto him, and he was basically convinced our relationship with on a downward spiral. After that we agreed to see how things...
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    What Are Effective Ways To Verbally Share Feelings With AS Partner?

    Also, try to not look at it like a dog training kind of thing. The way you're wording it is giving me that vibe. Yes, for us NT individuals it may require some more conscious thinking on our behalf but that is only to learn to understand our AS loved ones. We can't always go by the book. Just...
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    What Are Effective Ways To Verbally Share Feelings With AS Partner?

    I think one thing you are failing to do is express to him that you are wanting him to perhaps do something about it. With most people (even NT) you should really be direct. You may not feel like you're beating around the bush or hinting at something, but you are actually doing that and he may...
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