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  1. Roisin

    When is a pet, more?

    I believe I get it, the grief is real, it feels for me as deeply as the loss of other two legged loved ones. It's the intuitive connectedness I most appreciated, those innate safe Rogerian conditions of congruence, empathy and unconditional positive regard. As an ADHD ASD late diagnosed woman...
  2. Roisin

    Sad news about my grandmother

    What a difficult time for you Jen, to lose your loved granmother, I am sorry you are experiencing this. May she rest in peace.
  3. Roisin

    How Does One Process Death of a Companion?

    For some a loved creature can be a secure attachment; I'm in that group, it could be something similar for you and Luke. It's a connection beyond words or actions, a meeting of minds, of souls even. Very precious animal relationships for me always needed time for grief. I'm 7 months on from...
  4. Roisin

    Autistic Burnout--what was it like?

    Long story short My worst one felt as if something switch like in my brain was flipped. I remember the moment it happened, I was drowning in grief and loss, many loved ones, safety and security lost, for months on end, my abusive ex husband whom I was trapped with, was taking his temper out on...
  5. Roisin

    Daily Small Wins Thread

    Made a few phone calls!
  6. Roisin

    Christmas Decorating?

    As a Christmas treat my secondary school Home Economics teacher taught us how to make the no cook eggnog (she was likely a bit tipsy by the end of the day), different times! I used to make it for years afterwards, I might just dust off that recipe book and give it a go again.
  7. Roisin

    Christmas Decorating?

    Christmas pudding is a favourite of mine, with extra brandy and custard. Its very dense, like a fruit cake but with way more fruit.
  8. Roisin

    Daily Small Wins Thread

    I had a difficult conversation today and it went as well as I could have hoped for.
  9. Roisin

    Daily Small Wins Thread

    I got out of the house on time this morning and it wasn't chaotic.
  10. Roisin

    Christmas Decorating?

    I like Christmas, it brings brightness during the long and dreary winter months. The christmas tree is my yearly challenge; to do as good as or better than the year before. I get a bit obsessed about bauble placement, the continuous supply of satisfaction it brings me when its completed is...
  11. Roisin

    Daily Small Wins Thread

    Nice idea :) I made some more steps towards organisation, didn’t have the headspace to do this for a while.
  12. Roisin

    Do you like being autistic?

    Generally I like who I am and being ND. I dont like how unnecessarily though life can be at times; when I don't have access to support services for the mental health challenges that result from non-inclusive experiences. That one irritates me.
  13. Roisin

    Our Haven of Hope

    I hope I can stay as present as possible over the next week, the anxiety has only eased in the last few days so it's gonna be challenging but I have the experience of facing bigger and scarier than this and I've always made it through.
  14. Roisin

    Have any of used this website for a while but made no friends here?

    It's a strange point in time, I came up through the early internet experience, where friends were an in-person thing, as were relationships. Yet I have felt a connectedness to online friends, beyond discussion and commonalities. Online, as with regular life I've only found friendship success...
  15. Roisin

    How do you relate to patterns?

    The patterns I notice are mostly social or natural. I used to think the patterns were noticable to me because of hypervigilence or strong empathy. Although there are overlaps, these didn't fully explain this experience of knowing or intuition I have about people or situations. Sometimes I'm...
  16. Roisin

    Our Haven of Hope

    Today I'm hopeful we can make the most of the moments together
  17. Roisin

    Our Haven of Hope

    ^Personal ones, based on ND acceptance.
  18. Roisin

    Our Haven of Hope

    I hope that today becomes part of the changes I've already started.
  19. Roisin

    What Is Love?

    Hmm, I guess it changes depending on the recipient... I love the natural world, it inspires and creates a sense of awe in me, I'd go to great lengths to protect it, I feel like my authentic self when I'm with animals, in a forest, beside a body of water etc. I feel connected to something bigger...
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