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  1. Tony Ramirez

    Every social group I joined.

    Here is the problem I have when I join every social group in my lifetime. When I join it they already just came back from a big retreat trip and or going on one, and I am too late to register, then their Instagram shows they did some of them in the past. Now, as soon as I join their social...
  2. Tony Ramirez

    Meetup.com needs to be banned.

    Or at least come with a warning to not let disability people to use it. I had my final mental breakdown today with this app. I tried a recent city walking club. Basically no one talked to me not even the leader. When I thought I connected with a woman and talked for a few minutes walking with...
  3. Tony Ramirez

    What did I accomplish?

    Really, approaching my 6-year anniversary next month, I achieved nothing. Still single, unemployment, not traveling, stuck in NYC, losing friends. Getting more angry, broke and bitter.
  4. Tony Ramirez

    Everyone online, stop using stupid phrases like "you will find your tribe" or "your people".

    It is making me sick hearing it. So far, I have not "found my tribe". I found nothing but misery going to nothing but new social groups trying and trying. Getting sick mentally and physically. Mentally, causing me to go on higher antidepressants and antipsychotics. Physically causing me to...
  5. Tony Ramirez

    I'm too stupid to ever go back to school.

    Let's admit it. A 0 GPA ruined my chances. I just can't retain information. You can tutor me for hours but in minutes I will forget it all. No study methods work. I am tired of my friends pumping crap in my brain that I can do it and I am not stupid. I am tired of hearing success stories of...
  6. Tony Ramirez

    I actually don't want an platonic female friend anymore.

    I meet a real good guy friend that actually listens to me. All my problems and emotions. Helped me walk home when I called him. Actually hangs out with me. I missed his special day because of a women ostracizing me I couldn't handle emotional and he completely understand even avoiding him and...
  7. Tony Ramirez

    Just deleted my Reddit account (again)

    I've had it with reading all the despairing stories about people enduring loneliness, introversion, and unsuccessful dating experiences. It's disheartening to the point where I hesitated to text a friend for two months. When I finally did, he expressed concern, said he was giving me space, and...
  8. Tony Ramirez

    Plato weight loss.

    Everyone is saying to lift weights. I just do cardio and love it. I love walking. I do love using the bike and treadmill, but now for 2 months all I have been doing is staying around 250 to 255 pounds (115.67 kg). Even after walking from my house in Brooklyn to midtown Manhattan now for a month...
  9. Tony Ramirez

    I'm done with EDM.

    I am tired of EDM. I just can't enjoy the melodic, progressive and even techno grooves when they decide to randomly drop f bombs into the mix and not just once but random unexpectedly sometimes angry or even in a mellow tune. I had enough that I am only going to listen to retro mixes from 70s to...
  10. Tony Ramirez

    Make friends as a adult. Keeping them impossible.

    I don't understand the difficulty in making friends as a adult. I actually find it quite easy. Making friends as a kid, teenager and after was quite difficult impossible to be exact especially after 18. Now it's not difficult especially at my 40's. Really I don't see what the fuss is with all...
  11. Tony Ramirez

    No one give me the crap that flying is expensive.

    I want to travel and fly somewhere on a plane anywhere to a safe destination, but I always have to hear the same crap from people's mouth that it's too expensive yet every day yes every day I have to hear from them that they literally travel to Dallas, San Francisco or to Paris, London or as for...
  12. Tony Ramirez

    Is my obsession with only wanting certain types of friends aka single women sabotaging any friendships?

    Really I have friends let's not lie and I am making them all the time. I walk into a room after only being in a place s few times and I am openly greeted by name. It does not even take long for it to happen either. Then I am randomly run into people I know who approached me when I am not even...
  13. Tony Ramirez

    Purposely being ignored in social settings/Women hate me

    No it's not me. It's ever neurotypical person. Even my close married friend. It seems like when I talk to them one on one for example this happens. The person is never interested. The person interrupts constantly. Is not focused and is always preoccupied doing something. But as soon as another...
  14. Tony Ramirez

    I must have thought I was nuts going to start saying that.

    First of all my language as become rougher because of my anger and ostracizing as I spoke just like I did back when I was ostracized back in my 18 to early 20 years. Then my language cleaned up when I had friends. When I started to lose them and was ostracized again the rough language came back.
  15. Tony Ramirez

    People are listening to my feedback.

    Okay all the negative I been giving myself about women hating me I don't know what to believe about that but all I know is that I attended a new church for a month now and felt totally ostracized. I let both pastors know. I meet with one twice. The second time I left real emotional critical...
  16. Tony Ramirez

    I'm a plague to women who are not married.

    No joking. I am serious now. No crap. I am so depressed. Whenever I even just try to sit next to a woman anywhere she gets up and leaves. She will give me that resting face too. This is in all social events where people suppose to socialize. I even try to talk to them and they will either...
  17. Tony Ramirez

    My mother cut me off.

    Long story short because she insulted my married friend the one who helped me so much that got into this great community church and helped me connect to the people there. Been friend to me and others. I snapped at my mother now she says I am on my own with my cooking, buying food and everything...
  18. Tony Ramirez

    I'm part of one church now I mean it.

    After much pain mentally and physically from much ostracizing I now decided on one church. This one. The one I pericuded because of the pain the past and new church I tried out hurt me so. Hope was the most supportive and actually opened and accepted me right away without ostracized me from day...
  19. Tony Ramirez

    Root of my misery ironic Roots Cafe.

    All this time I been blaming my friends, family, old past church, and even current and other church I am visiting but all this time the root of my anger came from going to the cafe all the time. All the churches I visited yes every one I was welcomed with open arms. I was smiled at yes by...
  20. Tony Ramirez

    Noise cancelling earbuds that really work.

    I am looking for a pair of noise cancelling Bluetooth earbuds that block out the noise mainly the chatter of other people. I mean not just when listening to music which is fine. I mean the annoying silent parts between songs or when you are watching a show or movie then I have to hear them...
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