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  1. KevinMao133

    The Problem With Wanting A Perfect Partner

    We all want to date people who are confident, witty and charming, yet we often ignore the ones who are really smart but don’t show it The problem with wanting a perfect partner is this: perfection doesn’t exist. It’s just a myth and something created to spread hatred amongst us Even if that...
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    I Might Never Be Good Enough For A Relationship

    In the past I have said many derogatory things about women, but it was because of RSD as well as years of abuse Being abused, PUAd, was something I had a hard time getting out of. I tried to eliminate those negative emotions through coping but it wasn’t working Truth is I don’t think I will...
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    I’m Not A Flirty Person

    I just realized a big issue I’m having: I do not know how to talk to a woman Due to being an introvert as well as non flirty, simply put, I am incapable of flirting without sounding like a creep I try my best to treat women like people but the problem is I am friendly towards everyone, I...
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    Thoughts On The Autistic Culture Podcast?

    I don’t know how many people know about the podcast I personally find it interesting as it’s a good podcast to kill time I find the episodes too long but for the most part I do other things when I listen to them There are some things I don’t like though, they criticize ableism, which is a...
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    The Weird Life Of A Person With AuDHD

    Looking at it from the autistic perspective, my life is pretty good. I’m focused on things I want to focus on and generally speaking I’m content Problem is I’m not 100% autistic, instead I’m diagnosed with AuDHD. Part of me is autistic, part of me is ADHD Life is confusing at times. The ADHD...
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    The Fear Of Losing It

    You would think after accomplishing so much, that I will be more calm and poised. Not really. I feel good while doing things but that’s it. I’m constantly on edge, constantly afraid of something. I’m afraid of losing it, I’m afraid that everything will snap in an instant Having being through...
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    My Problem With Relationships

    No one can be 100% logical, same with me. That said, I try my best to do so by rationalizing things I do Anyways, here’s my problem with relationships: I can prepare for it and it also doesn’t come naturally I can respect all the women I meet but still, no relationship will ever come out...
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    A Weird Relationship With Myself

    I’m extremely open minded when it comes to learning knowledge. I dig deep in intellect as well That said, I have a weird relationship with myself as I’m close minded when it comes to people. I don’t know why but the older I get, the more withdrawn I am. I was never interested in socializing...
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    How To Stop Wanting Relationships

    Whenever I think of the word relationship, it pains me as my mind goes into overdrive and I’m stressed beyond relief I’m happy being single and I’m goal driven but a part of me wishes I can experience being in a relationship. A part of me feel like I’m missing out Anyways, I guess the...
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    Feeling Lost

    For the last week or so, I’m feeling kind of lost Between masking to caring too much about what others think of me, I am once again back at square one To be fair, I have always been sensitive. It has made me, it’s the reason why I’m creative That said, being sensitive is the reason why I...
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    A Weird Observation I Found

    They say exercise helps with weight loss but I have gained weight since I began my exercise regime I feel fatter than before, or maybe I’m self conscious Anyways, anyone feel they are fatter since they started exercising? Can’t be just me right, no way man
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    The Average Man

    When it comes to dating, most people are average at best It’s ok since most don’t need to be great, most don’t want to be great There is an unrealistic expectation when it comes to dating. People who claim they won’t date those who are average are average themselves. They forgot 99% of the...
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    Refusal To Conform

    Whenever I ask others how to go on dates, they always tell me the same thing: just hit the gym It’s like the sole purpose of life is chasing women and the only way to do so is by being fit I personally hate this culture, thus refusing to go to the gym. I don’t want to end up like one of...
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    Incapable Of Dating

    This is a topic I been trying to keep wraps for a every long time and still don’t feel uncomfortable revealing Do I lack emotional awareness? Am I not as intelligent as I thought? As I start to ask those difficult questions, self doubt starts creeping in I know I’m very capable and a very...
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    CBD Capsule

    I bought one bottle of CBD Capsule, one bag of gummies and a drink For those who have experience with CBD capsules, what is the experience like? What do I need to watch out for? Any side effects? I’m starting with one pill, see how it goes
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    Am I Abusive?

    As a human, I’m not going to front: we are all toxic in some ways, to some people Some people are more toxic while others are less toxic. Some also mask better than others For those who been on the site long enough, do you guys think I’m toxic or used to be toxic? I figure since I’m still...
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    Beware of Bullies Pretending To Be Good People

    While I won’t pretend I’m 100% good as I’m highly opinionated as well as controversial. If I am tired of something, or seeing something, I will speak out This post isn’t about me, it was never intended that way Anyways, be careful of people pretending to be good when in fact they are jerks. A...
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    Dealing With A Situation

    Last couple of days I been complaining too much, due to a camping trip I wasn’t looking forward to going but something changed today, as I decided maybe I needed a break after all I had a change of mind and I feel terrible about it due to the fact that I have been complaining a lot, this...
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    Need Help On Something

    For a writer, the toughest decision one has to make is choosing between platforms. Which platform is best for growth, what is my end goal I need help on something as I am making a difficult decision, potentially life changing decisions I been writing on Wordpress.com for less than a year...
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    Internalized Racism

    Perhaps the biggest issue with me is the fact I have internalized everything that was being told Growing up as an Chinese guy, I always felt inferior and still do Even though I try my best, this is an issue that can’t be ignored I try my best to work hard, to not think about those things...
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