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  1. May Black

    Happy new year everyone! :)

    Happy New Year! Hope 2015 will be a good year, in whatever way you find important, may your thoughts be positive, your journeys amazing, your shelters undiscovered. Much love
  2. May Black

    Should I try to get my Aspie back?

    Keeping my fingers crossed for you two.
  3. May Black

    Should I try to get my Aspie back?

    If his sister has any luggage there is a good chance she'll make him carry it out for her would be my guess.
  4. May Black

    Should I try to get my Aspie back?

    This is all wonderful news, I'm very happy for you and I'll keep my fingers crossed that things will work out for the two of you in the end. :) Keep us updated!
  5. May Black

    Should I try to get my Aspie back?

    lol I actually meant how to bake the cookies, but I must admit your interpretation of that is much better. I really dislike typing on my phone, so I stick to shortest possible answers. Have you texted him to ask how the cookies turned out yet?
  6. May Black

    Should I try to get my Aspie back?

    Text him, suggest you could teach him if he comes over.
  7. May Black

    Should I try to get my Aspie back?

    Nowadays our arguments generally go: And now you're going to say this! Obviously! And you'll answer this! And then we start laughing. We know each other in an out, but it's been a long journey. I still do fear the day when he'll grow tired of me though and move to a different special interest.
  8. May Black

    Should I try to get my Aspie back?

    It makes perfect sense, he probably hates talking about it. It's not interesting to him and he doesn't understand why it would be interesting to you. You cannot simply ask him what happened, no offense, but that goes into the stupid question category. He already told you. If you want to drag...
  9. May Black

    Should I try to get my Aspie back?

    I was going to suggest the exact same thing, but you beat me to it. To put it very harshly, if you're not capable of being straight forward with him, the chance of you two having a functional relationship is minimal.
  10. May Black

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    As others have said, it doesn't sound as typical Aspie to me. His behavior seems rather abusive and harmful. I think you should contact a relationship counselor if you wish to proceed with it. My boyfriend can be very arrogant towards both me and strangers if pushed into an uncomfortable...
  11. May Black

    Should I try to get my Aspie back?

    It's not really a bad thing, the way I interpreted it would mean he actually wants to keep the option of seeing you again open, which is why I think giving him other opportunity other than returning clothes would be positive.
  12. May Black

    Should I try to get my Aspie back?

    It's actually quite possible to get used to it and learn to read them. You can also ask if they think everything is working fine if you feel insecure and they'll tell you. Don't do it too often, and do explain that you need it from time to time. They have other ways of showing that they care...
  13. May Black

    A New Friend

    That's great news! :) Hope your new friend's nice.
  14. May Black

    Food habits

    I have been eating the same breakfast for the last ten years, I've even used exactly the same cup for my tea. I know I'm entering a phase of change, because I've been altering cups and I've been even experimenting with cereal lately. I eat certain food in squares and rectangles (rice, mashed...
  15. May Black

    The one thing you can just do which nobody understands...

    Learning foreign languages and my ability to understand the logic in grammar and being able to deduct it from sentences without having to actually learn rules as such. My memory is ridiculously good.
  16. May Black

    Emotional connections

    I can relate somewhat, my parents divorced when I was one, my father was absent, and my step father turned out to be a horrible human being. My childhood left me rather unable to trust people. I was taught that we don't talk about the things that were going on at home with anyone and it has...
  17. May Black

    How Do You Not Beat Yourself Up When You Mess Up?

    I try to apply the same standards on myself as I do on other people. It helps a lot. The way I see life, I'm the only person I really have to live with for the rest of my life, so I try to be kind to myself.
  18. May Black

    I.Q. 131 normal for an aspie?

    I think the way lot of those tests are created is quite beneficial for the Autistic brain. It's very little else than a number. I got 138 on an official test back in high school, especially when I was younger I often found myself wishing I was dumber, because I thought it would make me more...
  19. May Black

    Emotional connections

    I feel very strong connection with my boyfriend and my brother. Loosing either of them would be completely devastating for me. I have one close friend who I can talk to as well. I don't often feel the need of dumping my negative emotions on anyone, I want to be cheered up by not talking about...
  20. May Black

    Should I try to get my Aspie back?

    I'm so curious what's going to happen now! I'd totally go with the sink not getting unclogged. I wouldn't act too feeble and incapable, as it might turn him off as well. You tried, but seem to be doing something wrong. Figure out a way how it might look like you're really doing something wrong...
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