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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    I'm happy to take this somewhere else Thinx. This will be my last post/reply. This forum has been of little use to me. You are right about our workplace. It is poorly supported. A few days ago someone came to work drunk - nothing was said. There is a least one other person there with...
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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    Why don't you think so ?
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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    Could it be an extreme form of stimming or masking ?
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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    I don't think I could ever use the phrase 'a physical desire that I would like to consummate' but you may be right.
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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    I would like to have a conversation like this. In our work environment there are a lot of people around which makes it difficult, for me anyway. I asked her to meet me sometime so we could talk about things - she said 'no'. I don't think it can be just a sex thing - if it was, why focus on me...
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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    It depends what you mean by 'relationship'. We are friends who, it appears, both want it to become more than that. But maybe I'm wrong... Honestly, I am not sure what is going on.
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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    She concealed one of her relationships from me, so that I would get closer to her I think. I found out about it and felt deceived so I stayed away from her for a few days. She almost didn't speak for two days, or sleep. Then we started to get closer again and the same thing happened. Almost...
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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    Yes, I agree. I am trying to be less judgmental. It is not easy. The strange thing is, I think we want the same thing. But every time we start to get close she does something to make it difficult. For example, she has recently started something with one of my friends at work. He is engaged...
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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    Why on earth would I troll THIS forum ?!!? I agree about the shaking - it is weird. The first time it happened she told me: "this is not easy for me, I am shaking". I had bought her a gift and she had told me she was with someone. The second time it happened she was trying to touch my hand...
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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    For her, sex with co-workers seems to be no problem. When she is finished with them she can sometimes totally ignore them, like they are invisible. They are not going to 'come after me' because they don't care about her. Some of them are married. I would not say I am 'looking' for love. I...
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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    The distancing option is definitely easier for me - but I have some personality disorder (schizoid) that has made that my default strategy for most of my life. Not sure it works...
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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    Not easy - some of them are disgusting and it is a little heart-breaking.
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    Is she sabotaging our relationship ?

    I am NT. There is a woman I work with who has Asperger's. She is amazing. I am in love with her. I think she may be in love with me. A couple of times I have noticed that she shakes if we are close to some kind of breakthrough. But what mostly seems to happen is that she has casual sex...
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