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  1. L

    Advice needed

    Thank you sooo much. I have so much love inside me, I just picked the wrong person to give it to. Few things make me leave, but the lack of loyalty, fidelity and devotion to one person is unacceptable. I deserve more. As much as I give to someone myself. All in all, I feel a little sorry for...
  2. L

    Advice needed

    :( I didn’t know that. I’ve learnt the hard way
  3. L

    Advice needed

    I don’t need this kind of drama. But I already invested emotionally that’s why I wanted to ask questions before I decided to “move on”. It’s done now. I was just confused with an “Aspie” lying so much…
  4. L

    Advice needed

    I was looking for insight from “other Aspies” because HE TOLD ME he is an Aspie. Because like I said before I never knew anyone with Asperger’s syndrome, or don’t know anyone who knows a person with it. I came here for help and still don’t understand why this is something bad. If I don’t know...
  5. L

    Advice needed

    I don’t understand why you assume that this wouldn’t be comfortable for me? And I’m not second-guessing what you say, to be honest easier for me would be to “move on” or heal from this situation if in fact he wouldn’t be autistic and all he said was a lie. Because then I wouldn’t blame myself...
  6. L

    Advice needed

    … but as a Dark triad he would be so caring towards me? ( I mean when we were physically together) , he would have a dog he takes care of ? I know it might be a stupid question, but I really don’t know…
  7. L

    Advice needed

    Yes, it’s definitely not nice and for sure not acceptable for me… I have no idea. Only this last time, he told me that woman told him to move out, because her daughter is coming back to the country. He suppose to stay there for a year, but after two months she told him that. Another thing...
  8. L

    Advice needed

    I never asked him about papers, he told me that he was diagnosed when he was 8. But he told me about Asperger’s 5 months ago, not recently to excuse his behavior with dating app. Yes maybe this was also a lie.
  9. L

    Advice needed

    Yes… but I was naive. Not having any experience with autism before, I was putting everything on it. I thought if he says he loves me it must be true, why would he lie… and actions not matching the words ? Probably Asperger’s. I was even feeling guilty for being too demanding or not...
  10. L

    Advice needed

    Yes that’s really weird about him. Since I know him which is a bit more than a year, he changed his house like 4 times. Now (which is also weird) he lives with a couple. He rents a room from them. No privacy or “alone” time for someone with Asperger’s must be difficult, right? I don’t even want...
  11. L

    Advice needed

    yes of course, we had sex multiple times… actually physical attraction was incredible. I was also surprised how he was very touchable, he was holding my hand, touching, hugging me all the time. He was even falling asleep cuddling me. We were basically acting like a couple. Yes I know things...
  12. L

    Advice needed

    Yes Thank you so much. Yes, at the beginning I was putting his behavior on autism. I was excusing him constantly. But if you’re telling someone 10 times that something hurts you, and he keeps doing it, it’s just being an asshole. I don’t know what issues he has, if that’s an addiction or what...
  13. L

    Advice needed

    Oh no, we’ve met already. We spent few days together. 4 weeks ago. Yes of course it’s okay to not want relationship etc. but it’s not okay saying someone you love them and you want to be with them, but behind their back doing something opposite. He was saying one thing and doing the other. I...
  14. L

    Advice needed

    Maybe he’s not a bad guy. But this is how I see him now unfortunately. I’m just very hurt. We’ve met just by accident. Over one year ago I’ve been through the worst experience in my life. For few years I was living abroad, my boyfriend was from a different country than I. When I came to visit...
  15. L

    Advice needed

    Thank you so much for replying. While I was here, trying to find a solution of this situation, naively believed he’s a good guy, he reopened his dating profile, adding like 10 other girls on his instagram. I’m shocked how stupid I was and how well he manipulated me. I must admit he was very...
  16. L

    Advice needed

    Your younger days ? He’s over 30… Really you wouldn’t even try? Even if you would care about someone ? So for example if you’re angry with your wife ( unless she never makes you angry, then you’re lucky ) you don’t love her at the same time while you’re angry? Sorry for probably stupid...
  17. L

    Advice needed

    Ive seen this once with him, when I asked him something and he got scared too. I know what you mean. I learn everyday. Can I ask you, if you would be in this situation and you would do something wrong ( I mean I have every right to be angry with him and disappointed) but you would know how...
  18. L

    Advice needed

    And he was coming back?? I was angry I told him how he made me feel… he barely responded like he just doesn’t care anymore. Not the first time anyway.
  19. L

    Advice needed

    Yes but he told me he hates driving for so long and he told me he did it just to be able to take me from the airport. We actually have that in common because I hate noisy places too. I asked him few times why he’s doing it, he told me he was bored and wanted to chat or that he wanted to...
  20. L

    Advice needed

    We had few times “bad moments”… he always shut off, and then after a while he comes back trying to repair things. It was even before I knew about him being an Aspie. He told me few times that he needs time to “process” things. Thank you for replying
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