• Welcome to Autism Forums, a friendly forum to discuss Aspergers Syndrome, Autism, High Functioning Autism and related conditions.

    Your voice is missing! You will need to register to get access to the following site features:
    • Reply to discussions and create your own threads.
    • Our modern chat room. No add-ons or extensions required, just login and start chatting!
    • Private Member only forums for more serious discussions that you may wish to not have guests or search engines access to.
    • Your very own blog. Write about anything you like on your own individual blog.

    We hope to see you as a part of our community soon! Please also check us out @ https://www.twitter.com/aspiescentral

10 Things I Keep in My 'Toolkit' as an Autistic Person

AGXStarseed

Well-Known Member
(Not written by me)


1. Noise-canceling headphones: for when I need to take a break from my surroundings. Sometimes I need to check out to avoid sensory overload or block out distractions so I can work and focus on other things.

2. Sunglasses: for light sensitivities. I try to stay in the shade when outdoors, but I need sunglasses even on rainy days (and sometimes indoors). I have special colored lenses to help with the florescent lights in stores and office.

3. Hats: Hats with brims are great to block out glaring lights. I also like hats that come down around my face on days I do not feel like looking at people or being looked at. On sensory days or when I am tired, I honestly don’t have the energy to socialize with strangers, so I don’t.

4. Something to fiddle with: if I need a break or distraction, I use a book, iPod, smart phone, or fidget toy such as a rubix cube. I always like have an audio book or music available (and headphones) when I need a break.

5. Hand wipes: If you have tactile sensitivities like I do, sticky hands will annoy you. It is nice to have something to clean up with. I recommend avoiding scented wipes or finding a smell you like.

6. A snack: I get fuzzy and agitated when I am hungry. I can’t think, and my sensory issues get worse. If you have a sensitive stomach or are sensitive to tastes and textures, it is good to have something with you that you can eat if you are venturing out for the day.

7. Something that smells good: My sense of smell is sensitive. Public bathrooms, household cleaners, chemicals, and air fresheners all make me queasy. I like to have good scented lotion or perfume (that smells like food or candy) in my bag to apply when I need to smell something pleasant and block out something obnoxious.

8. Gum/mints/candy: My stims are less obvious, possibly because I’ve turned to an oral fixation. I like to keep organic mints, candy, or gum in my bag. Personally, I cannot handle aspartame or artificial sweeteners as they aggravate my stomach. I tend to be more sensitive to any non-organic chemicals than most people.

9. Taking breaks: I’ve found it is better for me to step away for a quiet moment alone than to have a public meltdown or shutdown. Don’t be afraid to excuse yourself and step away to take a break if you need one.

10. Knowing my limits: I get a certain feeling that seems to increase as I get closer to a shutdown or meltdown. It normally starts with the lights getting brighter and sounds getting distorted. Next is a headache and general mind fuzziness. Pay attention to how you are feeling. Learn to recognise the signs that you are getting overwhelmed.

Remember everyone is different. Autism really is a spectrum. These are just some of the tools I use.



Source: 10 Things I Keep in My 'Toolkit' as an Autistic Person

---

Do you guys have your own 'toolkit'?
 
nearly the same as yours apart from trying!!! not to panic in an unexpected stressful encounter with humans
(Not written by me)


1. Noise-canceling headphones: for when I need to take a break from my surroundings. Sometimes I need to check out to avoid sensory overload or block out distractions so I can work and focus on other things.

2. Sunglasses: for light sensitivities. I try to stay in the shade when outdoors, but I need sunglasses even on rainy days (and sometimes indoors). I have special colored lenses to help with the florescent lights in stores and office.

3. Hats: Hats with brims are great to block out glaring lights. I also like hats that come down around my face on days I do not feel like looking at people or being looked at. On sensory days or when I am tired, I honestly don’t have the energy to socialize with strangers, so I don’t.

4. Something to fiddle with: if I need a break or distraction, I use a book, iPod, smart phone, or fidget toy such as a rubix cube. I always like have an audio book or music available (and headphones) when I need a break.

5. Hand wipes: If you have tactile sensitivities like I do, sticky hands will annoy you. It is nice to have something to clean up with. I recommend avoiding scented wipes or finding a smell you like.

6. A snack: I get fuzzy and agitated when I am hungry. I can’t think, and my sensory issues get worse. If you have a sensitive stomach or are sensitive to tastes and textures, it is good to have something with you that you can eat if you are venturing out for the day.

7. Something that smells good: My sense of smell is sensitive. Public bathrooms, household cleaners, chemicals, and air fresheners all make me queasy. I like to have good scented lotion or perfume (that smells like food or candy) in my bag to apply when I need to smell something pleasant and block out something obnoxious.

8. Gum/mints/candy: My stims are less obvious, possibly because I’ve turned to an oral fixation. I like to keep organic mints, candy, or gum in my bag. Personally, I cannot handle aspartame or artificial sweeteners as they aggravate my stomach. I tend to be more sensitive to any non-organic chemicals than most people.

9. Taking breaks: I’ve found it is better for me to step away for a quiet moment alone than to have a public meltdown or shutdown. Don’t be afraid to excuse yourself and step away to take a break if you need one.

10. Knowing my limits: I get a certain feeling that seems to increase as I get closer to a shutdown or meltdown. It normally starts with the lights getting brighter and sounds getting distorted. Next is a headache and general mind fuzziness. Pay attention to how you are feeling. Learn to recognise the signs that you are getting overwhelmed.

Remember everyone is different. Autism really is a spectrum. These are just some of the tools I use.



Source: 10 Things I Keep in My 'Toolkit' as an Autistic Person

---

Do you guys have your own 'toolkit'?
 
Earbuds and my iPad are always with me. Being "in nature" always has a calming effect and fortunately I live in an area with lots of it.

Little worry stones are always in my purse.
 
I keep earplugs, sunglasses, and a snack with me all the time. Oh, and hat in the car because I always forget to take one with me. And Excedrin because I also get migraines. Wish I could learn my limits better.
 
I carry almost the same stuff on this list, and have for decades even before I knew I had Aspergers.

One difference is a small container of hand sanitizer that has a carabiner on it, instead of the wipes. It is cheaper, goes further, and makes less waste. I refill it from a larger container at home.

I also carry water and try to drink it throughout the day. I stopped getting headaches when I started this. It is better to drink a little water when you eat dried fruit and nuts, which are usually my choice of snack to carry.
 
I have been carrying almost the same items as others listed before i even knew about ASD. And years before i even thought i might be HFA.
I used to get hassled about all the stuff i *needed* to bring with me "just in case" by a guy i lived with. Made me feel defensive and defective.

My List :D
Hand sanitiser. Best invention ever. I used to carry soap leaves before this stuff revolutionised my life.

Hand cream. I found non greasy readily absorbed ones cos i hate dry scratchy hands almost as much as i hate sticky greasy hands.

Lip balm. Non sticky. See note on hands above.

Tissues
Sunglasses. All. Year. Round.
Warm gloves in winter
Scarf in winter. Cashmere if possible as it's softest.

Earphones. But ones that don't cause aches with prolonged use.

Tumble stone
Snacks: banana or nuts and dried fruit or fruit chew lollies
Bottle of water
More recently: fiddle toys like fidget cube hanging on bag chain and soft toy with furry tail on bag chain

I have to wear a ring on my middle finger too. It's a comfort thing and i use it as anxiety relief even before i found out about ASD ...and that it was anxiety.
 

New Threads

Top Bottom