christianmother27
Well-Known Member
Before I begin, since I'm new, I just wanted to preface with that I am not professionally diagnosed and have simply been seeking answers as to whether this may fit me or not. Also I'd like to add that I was diagnosed as gifted when I was younger (the relevance to that being the similarities between gifted and Aspergers).
Ok this may get long but I'll try to keep it short, or at least bullet pointed
1. Aspies are very literal: About everything? I think of Amelia Bedilia from the childhood books that I used to read. Someone would tell her to plant a bulb and she'd plant a lightbulb, stuff like that. But somehow it seems difficult to understand how an adult couldn't understand very common expressions. In other words it seems that surely as an adult they would have learned the true meanings of such expressions in the process of growing up. Assuming this is the case, how does one tell if one takes things literally? The only example I can think of for myself off hand is a religious one - in that I take the Bible literally (except where I have learned through school and church that it is figurative - aka recalling from school metaphors and similes and applying it thusly. Ditto the poetry part, I don't take that literally.) But I don't know if that's "enough". So just curious what taking things literally looks like for other people.
2. Aspies don't grasp sarcasm: Again a point that makes me doubt I'm looking in the right place. I have a very subtle sense of sarcasm. I often will say something with a double entendre to my husband. And I understand usually if he says something to me. There have a been a few of his jokes I've missed and had to have explained but I understand more than I miss.
3. Relationships: A lot of the things I have read says that Aspies usually don't have relationships due to the social difficulties. Yet I am married and have 4 children. Now granted I met my husband online and chatted with him facelessly for a week. He is the only person I talk to regularly aside from my children. I sometimes talk to my mom, and less often other family members. I prefer to initiate contact online first, and on phone only if I have to.
And I've lost my train of thought so just three points for discussion this time
Ok this may get long but I'll try to keep it short, or at least bullet pointed
1. Aspies are very literal: About everything? I think of Amelia Bedilia from the childhood books that I used to read. Someone would tell her to plant a bulb and she'd plant a lightbulb, stuff like that. But somehow it seems difficult to understand how an adult couldn't understand very common expressions. In other words it seems that surely as an adult they would have learned the true meanings of such expressions in the process of growing up. Assuming this is the case, how does one tell if one takes things literally? The only example I can think of for myself off hand is a religious one - in that I take the Bible literally (except where I have learned through school and church that it is figurative - aka recalling from school metaphors and similes and applying it thusly. Ditto the poetry part, I don't take that literally.) But I don't know if that's "enough". So just curious what taking things literally looks like for other people.
2. Aspies don't grasp sarcasm: Again a point that makes me doubt I'm looking in the right place. I have a very subtle sense of sarcasm. I often will say something with a double entendre to my husband. And I understand usually if he says something to me. There have a been a few of his jokes I've missed and had to have explained but I understand more than I miss.
3. Relationships: A lot of the things I have read says that Aspies usually don't have relationships due to the social difficulties. Yet I am married and have 4 children. Now granted I met my husband online and chatted with him facelessly for a week. He is the only person I talk to regularly aside from my children. I sometimes talk to my mom, and less often other family members. I prefer to initiate contact online first, and on phone only if I have to.
And I've lost my train of thought so just three points for discussion this time