For the past 6 years I have been with two bike clubs in my area and have been very fortunate. They have been welcoming and during social times, like today where we had a pot luck breakfast before riding, I have had no issues. The people have been welcoming and tolerant, allowing me space to just watch and listenif I wish, and joining in when I like, and not bothered by my occasional faux pas. They practice inclusion, both socially and in designing rides for all abilities and have no agenda other than to enjoy bicycling and each other's company. Some are excellent bicyclists but supportive of us who enjoy a less strenuous pace.
I don't know if I am really lucky with this group of people, but in general I think that the focus on an enjoyable activity may set the stage for inclusion. Not only do I enjoy the physicality of a good ride, but I find myself really liking the people and look forward to seeing them. No stress there and, in fact, I am looking forward to planning a ride in the fall as we take turns planning, and thinking of a ride from a local cidery to enjoy some hard cider and a bite to eat after a nice bicycle through the countryside.
Have others experienced such with groups involved with activities?
I don't know if I am really lucky with this group of people, but in general I think that the focus on an enjoyable activity may set the stage for inclusion. Not only do I enjoy the physicality of a good ride, but I find myself really liking the people and look forward to seeing them. No stress there and, in fact, I am looking forward to planning a ride in the fall as we take turns planning, and thinking of a ride from a local cidery to enjoy some hard cider and a bite to eat after a nice bicycle through the countryside.
Have others experienced such with groups involved with activities?