DragonKid♾
Active Member
I've recently started scratching at the back of my left hand with the nails of my right hand. It hurts afterwards and I don't like it. It just looks like hand wringing from the outside, so no one's noticed. But I can see the little red marks it leaves. It happens most often in the school cafeteria. That place is too loud and I feel constantly on guard against being mocked, and it makes me nervous. So I stim. I have headphones for the loudness, but I'm afraid of looking like "the special needs freak".
My friends have told me that the headphones look like normal music headphones, but with everything else about me, it's fairly obvious what they actually are. That's part of the reason I'm seeking help. I've heard the best way to remove a bad stim is to replace it with another one. But I'm scared the other one will be too obvious and stand out. At least hand wringing is something everyone does. And now I feel guilty for typing that.
I wish I had the guts to look autistic and unashamed of it. I'm trying. But it's not working. Thoughts?
My friends have told me that the headphones look like normal music headphones, but with everything else about me, it's fairly obvious what they actually are. That's part of the reason I'm seeking help. I've heard the best way to remove a bad stim is to replace it with another one. But I'm scared the other one will be too obvious and stand out. At least hand wringing is something everyone does. And now I feel guilty for typing that.
I wish I had the guts to look autistic and unashamed of it. I'm trying. But it's not working. Thoughts?