Now no mucking about, things have changed, so are we responsible as a generation for making the spectrum bigger in the next generation.
In my day (NO, I am not in fact 88 years old, nor do I wear bloomers, have false teeth chiselled out of oak or call people varmints and whippersnappers), in my day we would get a hiding for being bad and then a stern talking to, which we listened to if we knew what was good for us, now you can't even look cross-eyed at anyone under 30 or risk prison <--- slight exaggeration? Your call!
If you got sent to your room for any reason it actually was a punishment because the tress and dirt and imagination and potential friends were all outside, where you weren?t allowed to go!
We ate what was put in front of us or we went without until the next meal, and we often ate things we didn't necessarily like, we wore a uniform to school and looked 'smart' to go out anywhere, we respected old people, not because they deserved it (they did) but because that was the done thing.
We didn't use bad language in crowds or make a scene, we went out everyday and played in the dirt and climbed trees, if we got hurt we got a hiding for being an idiot (and then the love and care and attention, or was it the other way around?)
We hardly ever wore shoes and we had a different best friend every week which led to a new enemy each week too (the old best friend possibly), we didn?t have computers and such so instead of utilising other peoples imagination to keep us amused we had to do it ourself, a stick became a gun and you 'shot' your mates because you were the good guy right...
But if you were the bad guy, you got a turn later at being the good guy, unless you were aces at being bad and then you were typecast in the neighbourhood, which was good?!?
If you read all of the above you know where I am going with this don't you... are we breeding our kids to the spectrum, is it possible that taking away the things that made us who we are, made us strong, are we taking that away from the next generation so they have to stay indoors under fluorescents and can only eat noodles and spag boll and ice cream and tins of peaches.
The spectrum is getting larger it's said, so is it us now putting the children in cotton wool that?s doing it or was it always that large and it's only being noticed now?
In my day (NO, I am not in fact 88 years old, nor do I wear bloomers, have false teeth chiselled out of oak or call people varmints and whippersnappers), in my day we would get a hiding for being bad and then a stern talking to, which we listened to if we knew what was good for us, now you can't even look cross-eyed at anyone under 30 or risk prison <--- slight exaggeration? Your call!
If you got sent to your room for any reason it actually was a punishment because the tress and dirt and imagination and potential friends were all outside, where you weren?t allowed to go!
We ate what was put in front of us or we went without until the next meal, and we often ate things we didn't necessarily like, we wore a uniform to school and looked 'smart' to go out anywhere, we respected old people, not because they deserved it (they did) but because that was the done thing.
We didn't use bad language in crowds or make a scene, we went out everyday and played in the dirt and climbed trees, if we got hurt we got a hiding for being an idiot (and then the love and care and attention, or was it the other way around?)
We hardly ever wore shoes and we had a different best friend every week which led to a new enemy each week too (the old best friend possibly), we didn?t have computers and such so instead of utilising other peoples imagination to keep us amused we had to do it ourself, a stick became a gun and you 'shot' your mates because you were the good guy right...
But if you were the bad guy, you got a turn later at being the good guy, unless you were aces at being bad and then you were typecast in the neighbourhood, which was good?!?
If you read all of the above you know where I am going with this don't you... are we breeding our kids to the spectrum, is it possible that taking away the things that made us who we are, made us strong, are we taking that away from the next generation so they have to stay indoors under fluorescents and can only eat noodles and spag boll and ice cream and tins of peaches.
The spectrum is getting larger it's said, so is it us now putting the children in cotton wool that?s doing it or was it always that large and it's only being noticed now?