So I got the dreaded news that my father has wound up with cancer. Frankly, I am pretty devastated and numbed by the news. According to the reports I've heard there's not much hope. Even though we never really got to spend much time together,(him and my mother were never married, nor got along well), we have a lot in common. I firmly believe that he is an undiagnosed high functioner, I am diagnosed. We also share a lot of other things in common too, a love for nature, music, carpentry, woodworking, welding etc.
Anyways, I broke the news yesterday here in the chat room. I was stunned to find out that nearly everyone there had lost a parent to cancer. I've received some PM's as well, with condolences etc, and even more people who have lost parents to cancer have shown up. (I do realize cancer is common, especially in old age, but many of the people lost parents at younger ages).
As my brain was racing today (like usual, but especially hard), it got me to thinking about if autism and cancer could somehow be related. For example if you have the genetic predisposition for cancer (it runs heavily on both sides of my family), could a person have a higher chance of having an autistic child? (Also runs heavily in my family on my mother's side, and I have an autistic son).
I was wondering what you all think? Or have you yourselves lost a parent to cancer at a young age, and are diagnosed as autistic? (Not meaning to pry or scratch old wounds). Any replies are welcomed.
Anyways, I broke the news yesterday here in the chat room. I was stunned to find out that nearly everyone there had lost a parent to cancer. I've received some PM's as well, with condolences etc, and even more people who have lost parents to cancer have shown up. (I do realize cancer is common, especially in old age, but many of the people lost parents at younger ages).
As my brain was racing today (like usual, but especially hard), it got me to thinking about if autism and cancer could somehow be related. For example if you have the genetic predisposition for cancer (it runs heavily on both sides of my family), could a person have a higher chance of having an autistic child? (Also runs heavily in my family on my mother's side, and I have an autistic son).
I was wondering what you all think? Or have you yourselves lost a parent to cancer at a young age, and are diagnosed as autistic? (Not meaning to pry or scratch old wounds). Any replies are welcomed.
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