I've coped with all four conditions my entire life. it's something you have to work day by day at, sometimes the scariest, largest steps can be the biggest accomplishments when you look back at them. i think what's worked most for me was forcing myself to stay in a place that actively scared me, and being proactive wherever i could. Just keep doing small, scary things until you progress to larger, scarier things. It will take a while, but it will happen. Anxiety and depression are tough, but they don't have to own you. As for consulting with your psychologists, i can't really say much but i can try to give some advice. I never felt comfortable with talking about topics like pursuing other diagnoses, and i felt i could never really trust them. IMO, if it's really tough for you to talk to your help team about the things they're supposed to get you through, they're not the right team. I have met so many NT therapists who i just couldn't trust, and subsequently i didn't get anywhere because i just couldn't tell them what i was struggling with. My most successful sessions of counseling/therapy happened with people i felt calm and relaxed around. Lastly, as i would say for anyone who suspects they have something, always do your research before you think about any sort of diagnosis!