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Autistic boy died after he was strapped to a chair and left in a shed

AGXStarseed

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(Not written by me. May cause upset)

The horrific restraints used on an autistic boy, 11, who died after 'being strapped to a chair, given a cold shower and left to sleep upright in a freezing garden shed'

  • A boy with autism died after he was strapped to a chair and left in a shed
  • Earlier, he was put in a cold shower to calm him down after an outburst
  • The 11-year-old boy, who only weighed 24 kilograms, died of hypothermia
  • His mother appeared in Sydney District Court on manslaughter charges



A boy with autism died after his parents allegedly attempted to calm him down by giving him a cold shower, strapping him to a chair and leaving him in a garden shed where temperatures dropped as low as five degrees, a court has heard.

The 11-year-old boy's mother, who can not be named for legal reasons, faced Sydney's District Court on Wednesday after she was charged with manslaughter following her son's death on October 1, 2011.

The court heard that the woman and her partner, the boy's step father, had started struggling to care for the young boy, who had difficulty sleeping and suffered from outbursts where he would throw himself around, the Sydney Morning Herald reported.

Crown prosecutor Peter McGrath SC said the boy's parents had started to restrain him in times of difficulty, using packing tape on his arms and legs and a 'a belt or ratchet type tie' around his waist.

On the night of the boy's death he was bound to a chair and placed in the garden shed at the rear of the family home in central west NSW, according to reports.

The court heard that the step-father picked up the boy, who had been 'unsettled', and placed him in a cold shower - a technique his mother said had been an effective method to 'snap him out of it'.

The mother had been sleeping when her husband placed her son outside and woke to his screams before she found her son's limp body in the chair, with his tongue protruding from his mouth.

The court heard that temperatures dropped to five degrees that night and the boy, who was wearing tracksuit pants and a jumper, weighed only 24 kilograms and had been unable to retain warmth.

The crown alleged that the cold conditions, coupled with the boy's inability to remove the wet clothes or put on any others, directly contributed to his hypothermic condition, the Sydney Morning Herald reported.

'He was at the will and mercy of his mother and her husband, who was also in a position of parental responsibility to the boy,' Mr McGrath said.

While the mother was sleeping at the time her son was placed in the shower, the prosecution maintains that she was still jointly responsible as she had been aware of the method and had previously consented.

According to reports, her lawyer told the court that she believed her husband would provide 'whatever care' the boy needed.

Mr McGrath said the couple feared the 11-year-old would harm himself and had previously restrained him using plastic pipes and a sleeping bag, sometimes forcing him to sleep upright bound to a chair, the Sydney Morning Herald reported.

The court heard that from 'time to time' he was placed in the shed, with a baby monitor set up to ensure the couple could still oversee his care.

The mother told police in 2011 that she feared her son would hurt himself and had been trying to do the 'right thing', according to reports.

'We have had to restrain him time and time again with tape so he doesn't get up and hurt himself. We are trying to prevent him from hurting himself.'

The trial continues.



SOURCE: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...ld-shower-left-sleep-upright-garden-shed.html
 
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He'd better be charged.

What I don't understand is how parents can honestly look at "solutions" like that and think they are "trying to do the right thing". Wouldn't something inside you say, "I should not have to do this, there has to be a better way"?? I feel very sad for parents who don't have adequate support in raising their kids (having struggled a lot with my own son at times, and very little help from outside). But I also know that even in my extreme desperation, these sorts of tactics never occurred to me. Because they are perverse! I know it gets harder as kids get bigger though, because their strength is more matched to your own. In my experience, parents don't want to accept that something in the home environment is triggering their child's behavior. It's somehow preferable to punish or restrain the child than fix the underlying problem.
 
I remember a similar story, not so long ago - the level of 'care' had reached an extreme of abuse due to desensitisation from repetition of what the parents could manage to do by themselves at the time (the boy was basically a captive, I think).
They tried to make the point in court that they were unable to obtain any official support whatsoever and simply did what they could.

I'm not defending these peoples', or anyones', actions in any way, but there's no mention in the article of what help they received, or even tried to obtain.

Too many families are left to deal with situations they know nothing about by uncaring doctors and authorities and still have to cope with anyway. Often, if they do approach their GP, they're informed that any difficulties are the fault of their own poor parenting methods - I've met too many parents of ASD kids who have had to combat authorities over that before they can even address the situation of their childs autism.

There are some bad people out there doing bad things.. there are also people who start off trying to do the right thing and end up doing the wrong thing anyway.
Yet there seems to be no authority willing to help, advise, step in if things get too much, before the situation gets so desperate!

I wonder how many children in care would still be with their parents if they had received help at the right time?
I can't help feeling that there's a fairly high number who are autistic!
 

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