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Banbury residents shocked after 'heart-breaking' attack on autistic boy

AGXStarseed

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(Not written by me. The following is a sensitive article, so reader discretion is advised).

SHOCKED residents have vented their anger and disbelief after a young autistic boy was urinated on in a Banbury park.

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Hill View Park

The 17-year-old victim, who has not been named, was on his scooter in Hill View Park, Banbury, when three younger boys threw food and drink at him and one urinated on him.

Police said that the incident had left the teenager feeling 'very distressed' and that they are treating the incident 'extremely seriously'.

Parents of other autistic children reacted to the news with shock and fear that similar things could happen to their own children.

Rebecca Helen Eldridge took to Facebook to say: "This is why I'm so scared as a mother to two autistic boys, when I'm not with them who will step up for them if this sort of thing happens?

"I know they need to spread their wings and be independent I just hope that someone is kind enough to help them if they needed it."

In another comment, Natalie Beechey said that it would be particularly difficult for an autistic child to make sense of what had happened.

She added: "It's also heart-breaking for the parents. I know this as I have been through similar with my son. It makes me so angry."

The three attackers are believed to be between 13 and 16.

They approached the victim and started insulting him before throwing food and a can of drink, which hit him on the head, police said.

One of the boys then climbed on a climbing frame above him and deliberately urinated on his scooter and on his leg.

Police are appealing for any witnesses to the incident, which happened on Saturday August 26 between midday and 3pm, to come forward with information which may help them find the three suspects.

The first boy, who urinated on the victim, is the tallest of the three, has short hair, and was wearing a green top and brown trousers.

The second has short blond hair, was wearing glasses and three-quarter length Batman trousers and a top which had an outline of a face on it.

The third suspect was wearing a white top and three-quarter length blue trousers.

Investigating officer PC Sean Allwood, based at Banbury police station, said: “Although the victim was unhurt, this incident was very distressing for him and is being treated extremely seriously.

"I would like to speak to anyone who witnessed the incident or who recognises the description of the offenders."

Alongside an outpouring of anger at the attack, messages of support towards the teenager have been made to the Banbury Cake.

Clair Lou Moss said that "Living with autism is an everyday battle and this will just add to the child's daily struggle. Sending good thoughts to you young man."


Source: Residents shocked after 'heart-breaking' attack on autistic boy
 
It upsets me to read stuff like this (NOT at you AGXstarseed)...

Yes, I get it that some AS/ASD people come off as weird and some (not all) have just a certain look to them that maybe makes them vulnerable to attacks, but some don't have that look at all and they still get bullied.

My deep question has always been (for those of us who don't necessarily show any outward signs)...
What is it that triggers people to abuse us, torture us, bully us???
Do they sense we are lacking in social skills and they think its fun to terrorize a person already having trouble dealing with the very thing they are actually making worse???

If I had that one answer I think I would be a lot more at peace with myself.

I have had instances where I was minding my own business and just out of no where I am dealing with an abusive jerk. I work with people in sports... I try very hard to not deal with people face to face and just worry about the operations end of the business, but sometimes I have to deal with people.
Some people are just deeply angry and they let it all out on the person they know probably won't do anything about it...

Its sad and I feel bad for this kid... NO person (ASD or not) deserves to be treated like that in public or in private. Maybe the boys will learn to respect human life... Maybe they should get peed on a little and bewildered only to the point they KNOW how that boy felt, so they would never want to do that again.

To me this is more like animal behavior... I don't see a lot of humanity in this. Even worse I don't think I can think of any animals that go around peeing on each other either... So if this is the new typical NT lifestyle, thank you, but no thank you. I will be proud of my dysfunctional ASD self and go on with life. : )
 

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