Being in control

[Droopy]

Apparently Aspies like to have control and have things go their way.

Do you like to be in control? Do you get angry if things don't go your way?

 

[petrossa]

yep and no. I get furious.

 

[Kit]

I'm pretty flexible and like to follow people and I also do my own thing. But it drives me crazy when people don't stick to their agenda. When I'm hungry, it's worse.

 

[superboyian]

In some situations when I have to be the boss, I would prefer actually being a boss and in control, but at times, I just feel I could try a little harder at times. It seems I'm doing pretty well now.:H

 

[Droopy]

For me, I find that if I don't speak up in social situations then I get overlooked or ignored. If I do speak up and voice my opinions/ideas then I get accused to being bossy and trying to control. So it looks like I can't win sometimes no matter what I do. :lol2:

I like to plan things and have things go my way but I can also just go with the flow if needed.

 

[PanPaniscus]

I like things to go just so. My mum tells me off constantly for being selfish, I guess she's right.
I like people to stick to their guns, I don't do inconsistency.
I will go with the flow if I have to though.

 

[IdahoRose]

I'm a self-admitted control freak. I honestly believe that if I could control people like in The Sims, things in my life (and theirs) would go a lot more smoothly. Apparently, even one of my phobias - fear of vomiting - is common amongst people who like being in control.

However, that's the way I think and feel on the inside. On the outside, I quietly just go along with whatever the other people in my life choose to do.

 

[KinksFan]

I always have to have constant control. That's the reason that I've moved out, 4 years ago. I didn't feel that I had the control that I needed, when I was living with my parents, so I've moved out. When I'm with my friends, I'm able to go with the flow, because I enjoy their company.
:cute:

 

[CJinherPJs]

I'm actually pretty flexible and I don't mind not getting my own way, it doesn't really bother me. I don't mind playing by other people's rules either, as long as I know what they're asking of me is acceptable and they don't try to manipulate me. So most of the time I'm OK to go with the flow.

 

[The Penguin]

Yes being in control is very important to me. I love it that I have my independence. I don't get along well living with others. I also get upset when I don't get my way and will find a way to correct a situation so I can get my way.