jack_attack
Jack Attack
Hey y'all,
So, I got diagnosed with autism three days ago after thinking I may or may not be autistic for several years. Now that I understand this part of who I am, I want to tell my friends, but I'm not quite sure how to do this.
As with most conversations I start, my greatest fear is that the other person will be disinterested or judgmental but not show it to preserve my feelings. How can I gauge who would be glad to learn about my diagnosis and who would view it negatively or just not care at all?
When I decide to share my diagnosis with someone, how should I bring it up? I don't want to beat around the bush, but I also don't want to be too direct and catch them off guard. I don't want to be overly serious or somber, but this is important to me, so I don't want to come across as indifferent either.
And finally, how does one make such an awkward conversation less awkward? I know there's a lot of stigma around autism, so I don't want to come across as overly proud, especially if the person to whom I "come out" harbors negative prejudice toward autistic people. At the same time, I don't want to appear overly negative and evoke unnecessary sympathy as if I were disclosing a disease.
So, what do you think? How did you all disclose your autism to friends; what worked, and what didn't?
Thanks in advance for your advice!
~Jack Attack
So, I got diagnosed with autism three days ago after thinking I may or may not be autistic for several years. Now that I understand this part of who I am, I want to tell my friends, but I'm not quite sure how to do this.
As with most conversations I start, my greatest fear is that the other person will be disinterested or judgmental but not show it to preserve my feelings. How can I gauge who would be glad to learn about my diagnosis and who would view it negatively or just not care at all?
When I decide to share my diagnosis with someone, how should I bring it up? I don't want to beat around the bush, but I also don't want to be too direct and catch them off guard. I don't want to be overly serious or somber, but this is important to me, so I don't want to come across as indifferent either.
And finally, how does one make such an awkward conversation less awkward? I know there's a lot of stigma around autism, so I don't want to come across as overly proud, especially if the person to whom I "come out" harbors negative prejudice toward autistic people. At the same time, I don't want to appear overly negative and evoke unnecessary sympathy as if I were disclosing a disease.
So, what do you think? How did you all disclose your autism to friends; what worked, and what didn't?
Thanks in advance for your advice!
~Jack Attack