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dating a guy with aspergers

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ktx

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I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months. We met on a dating site and he wouldn't cancel his account and still goes on it. We had an argument and he went straight back on it so I went back on to show him how it feels. Now he is not talking to me. I do really like him but when there is an issue he seems to want to avoid it and not try to sort them out. he says he has cancelled his account now.
 
The next time you have "an issue," try gently asking him about why he's afraid to figure it out. I realize you were hurt by his continued use of the dating site, but going back on yourself out of spite was definitely not the way forward.

Trying to understand ASD can be frustrating sometimes. I get it. What you ought to do now is sit down together and talk things out like adults.
 
Thanks Ereth, I have just come back from a lovely afternoon/evening with him. I guess we are going to have arguments and getting advice from here will be helpful. I do really like him. I will try not to be so hot headed in future
 
Thanks, everything is all good now, I am sure we will have other aguements and I know I am not perfect. Most of the time he makes me really happy and he does lovely, caring things for me. I love spending time with him. He is so gorgeous and worth making an effort for.
 
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