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Dealing with ageing in the Bible

Rachie

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Hi forum, I wrote the below when I was having a bit of an inner conflict with myself about turning 40 in 2013 and looked to the Bible to try and help me to get through it. It did help me. It was still a tough one to go through for me though. Turning 50 in 2023 was challenging for me with the build up being in COVID, it was not how I would have liked. The modern world really does put it's spin on ageing and makes many of us feel that we are really past our sell by dates too young and the Bible doesnt appear to agree with that. We can feel chewed up basically and struggle with change. Even at 16 I struggled with change lol. I wrote this on my blog and have only shared it once. I am dealing with my 50s now and may be I should try and find more inspiration. In the Bible as well old age itself is a blessing and I like prophetess Anna who was widowed and serving in the Temple at the 87 in the New Testatment. I wrote it a long time ago, it could be added to, but this is what it was. Does anybody know anymore 50's lol.


Anyway, I thought I would share it if anyone who may find it useful with what they are going through as well with modern life.

In the Bible children were children from 0-19 years old and were in the promised land. At 20 they were put out into the wilderness (Numbers 14:29-33) (Deu 1:39) (Exodus 30:14) -at 20 they became fully accountable adults before God. Though, it seems that it was not until 30 that they were considered mature adults. Priests were in training up until 30 and Jesus didn’t begin his ministry until about 30 (Luke 3:23-38) as Jews didn’t consider adults fully mature until 30. From 30-50 you could serve in the ministry (Numbers 4:30) and were under the oversight of church elders over 50. Levites at 50 were to retire from active duty and minister/oversee those below this age (Numbers 8:25). Although 40 is symbolically important in the Bible, it though doesn’t seem to have the age significance that the modern world has put on it. It just seems to mean lots of years.Two generations.

A 40 year period of probation, trials and tribulations followed by renewal. Considering that children were in the promised land until 20 and were sent out for 40 years, 60 would suggest when life should “begin” and not 40. Any age under 60 is referred to as “young” in the Bible (1 Timothy 5:9), one score is twenty years and three score is 60 years.

40 years can also be a time for deepened reflection and movement. Moses was on probation for 40 years - the first twenty years of his life marked uncertainty and approaching 40/ a full forty years he left Egypt and decided to visit his own people Acts 7:23. This was God’s time for Moses. When Reheboam started to reign at age 41, he was considered to be a young man 1Kings 14:21 and 1 Kings 12:8-16 and so to was Joshua at 50 considered young Exodus 33:11.

So, in Biblical terms we know that 0-19 is childhood, 20-29 is a young adult. 30-49 is mature adulthood, 50-59 is not old but suggests that a greater level of understanding and maturity has been reached. 60-79 is old age with the Bible suggesting a phase I from 60-69 and phase II from 70-79 and it’s also mentioned in the Bible that 80+ is “very old” or of “great age” (2 Samuel 19:32) (Luke 2:36-38). Middle age is a modern age construct.
 
Also - even 120 years is a short time compared to eternity.

After much reading of the Bible, I have came to conclude that we are not going to a static state after death as is commonly assumed. We have much, much more growing before we truly become reconciled to Jesus.

Instead, I think of life as being similar to a tutorial stage in a video game.

Persevere through the tutorial and we will get to play the real game, which will take countless millennia.
 
For some perspective, do consider that the average life expectancy during the 1st century AD in Rome was actually quite short (20-25 years) for several reasons. So, if you were an "elder",...a survivor, that often gained you some respect. Even into the 18th and 19th century Europe, the average life expectancy was only in the 45-50 year range. Again, so if you were to live to your 80's, that was an accomplishment.

Another area of research are the "blue zone" communities where people tend to live beyond 100 years. Study how they live, what they eat, what kind of work and activities they do, and so on. All very interesting.
 
I see my friends denying that they need eyeglasses. We are all around 50. I have worn glasses since I was a child so I just don’t get it.

I guess we still feel young on the inside, but the outside is telling a different story.
 
Also - even 120 years is a short time compared to eternity.

After much reading of the Bible, I have came to conclude that we are not going to a static state after death as is commonly assumed. We have much, much more growing before we truly become reconciled to Jesus.

Instead, I think of life as being similar to a tutorial stage in a video game.

Persevere through the tutorial and we will get to play the real game, which will take countless millennia.
We are reconciled to Jesus, to God, from the moment He saves us. Then comes sanctification, that we don't do, but God does in us.
Read Philippians 1:5-6.

Also. Through most of the OT people lived much longer lives. So it's natural that someone at 40 was still considered young.

If one was expected to live 120 or more years, 40 is still very young.

People these days have this misconception that we are growing wiser and smarter as the centuries pass, but it's the exact opposite.

Same thing with age.
There was a time when humans lived centuries.
Our little minds can't conceptualise that, because we tend, with each generation, to think that we are the pinnacle of mankind.

But think of people like Da Vinci and Hypatia before him. They were geniuses who didn't have the tools that exist today, and still managed to do great things.🤷🏻‍♀️

God made us perfect, but since the fall our bodies and brains have been degrading with each consecutive generation.
 
Wow, how do you know so much about Jewish worldview and gemmatria?
Thank you, I think you may possibly mean me as I started the thread. I studied religious studies at university, my studies just took me a longer time to complete due to my health. I have studied some courses on Judaism with a great lecturer. Btw, just yesterday I wrote to family on Whatsapp I would like to consider again going to Berlin to see the Ann Frank museum and Berlin wall for renewal and restoration/restorative. I am still thinking about it. It was on the cards two years ago. I cannot remember my head state when I wrote this for sure, but I was in better health when I wrote it physically and I could have been hyper focusing a bit as well. It is hard to remember for sure. Religion has been kind of an interest for me. I won't say now my faith is my special interest, it is faith. But some religions have interested me and some areas. I have had an interest in the Old Testament as well I am a Christian and relate a lot to it more so in the past when I was really quite introverted and not so much online to be able to focus and had the time. I am quite numbers based and that is my Autism I think and I had to stop that with other conditions to level it out as it can be a lot more than this and can impact my other conditions. Lol, I can be writing +++ (extremly) etc and speaking it robotically. Lol my ebay feedback I was giving was pages of it. I used to do computers technology a whlle ago and this gave me free hold to enjoy writing like this. At school my RE GCSE at 16 was pure symmertry in motion remembering scripture, it is memory grabs and people was at school like asking me for the quotes and it was my memory was like a bit like a book directory. I can be quite geeky at times.
 
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Thank you, I think you may possibly mean me as I started the thread. I studied religious studies at university, my studies just took me a longer time to complete due to my health. I have studied some courses on Judaism with a great lecturer. Btw, just yesterday I wrote to family on Whatsapp I would like to consider again going to Berlin to see the Ann Frank museum and Berlin wall for renewal and restoration/restorative. I am still thinking about it. It was on the cards two years ago. I cannot remember my head state when I wrote this for sure, but I was in better health when I wrote it physically and I could have been hyper focusing a bit as well. It is hard to remember for sure. Religion has been kind of an interest for me. I won't say now my faith is my special interest, it is faith. But some religions have interested me and some areas. I have had an interest in the Old Testament as well I am a Christian and relate a lot to it more so in the past when I was really quite introverted and not so much online to be able to focus and had the time. I am quite numbers based and that is my Autism I think and I had to stop that with other conditions to level it out as it can be a lot more than this and can impact my other conditions. Lol, I can be writing +++ (extremly) etc and speaking it robotically. Lol my ebay feedback I was giving was pages of it. I used to do computers technology a whlle ago and this gave me free hold to enjoy writing like this. At school my RE GCSE at 16 was pure symmertry in motion remembering scripture, it is memory grabs and people was at school like asking me for the quotes and it was my memory was like a bit like a book directory. I can be quite geeky at times.
I'm Messianic Jewish :)

I was not raised Christian or Jewish. Yeshua (Jesus) lifted me up from great darkness and brought me to to the Light. Filled my world with hope. New life. New meaning.

I geek out about gemmatria quite a bit.

Every letter, every number, every word has a richer meaning in Hebrew. It's one of the reasons I know the Bible to be true. Jesus to be God in the flesh. It's too perfect. Each letter and the number it represents is a love note to humanity.
 
Gender is fluid. I don't know how to write this but I have a more typical male presentation of Autism than most females do. I collect strings of information. I have an obession with numbers and it really reflects as I wrote in one of my other conditions. So I scored high in the Autism test before even professionally diagnosing. My friends really in my younger days was boys. I didn't play with girl's as they always used to cry too much for me and express too much emotion. I might have something called hyperlexia with the hyperfocus. I may also even have other conditions which is not diagnosed, l have mentioned dyslexia possibility and I drop words a lot. Who knows what that is one.
 
I have had a few posts today, it is just life and sometimes how I process things. I don't like errors as well. That is why I am revisiting this post now. I have been wondering what were the Jewish people doing for them 38 years. I took it to my dad today. I can relate as well in some ways but I will only worship God.

The critical point of me reurning is to say it was Joshua who was probably in his 50s who brought them out of Eygpt and I was looking for more inspirational people in their 50s, but this has added more strenght to it. He brought them to a conclusion.

I was watching on the Sky religion programme. A woman was 101 and praying for hours a day. She loved her rituals. She ate jelly and bacon sandwiches daily. It was a US one. Even though each to their own and jelly is different in the UK.

Goodnight
 
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Gender is fluid. I don't know how to write this but I have a more typical male presentation of Autism than most females do. I collect strings of information. I have an obession with numbers and it really reflects as I wrote in one of my other conditions. So I scored high in the Autism test before even professionally diagnosing. My friends really in my younger days was boys. I didn't play with girl's as they always used to cry too much for me and express too much emotion. I might have something called hyperlexia with the hyperfocus. I may also even have other conditions which is not diagnosed, l have mentioned dyslexia possibility and I drop words a lot. Who knows what that is one.
Nope gender is personality sex is immutable
 
Nope gender is personality sex is immutable
Ok, this It is not something I have really looked into. I have though seen about the so called differences between female and male presentation with Autism. In later chidhood I had more female typical interests than in my early chidhood with a personality more male typically. Although, I had some typical girly things going on as well in my early childhood as I loved my rotational doll and pictured with some, but I didn't appear to be playing with them. Personality I was more tomboyish etc. It can be quite hard to write that today.
 
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Ok, this It is not something I have really looked into. I have though seen about the so called differences between female and male presentation with Autism. In later chidhood I had more female typical interests than in my early chidhood with a personality more male typically. Although, I had some typical girly things going on as well in my early childhood as I loved my rotational doll and pictured with some, but I didn't appear to be playing with them. Personality I was more tomboyish etc. It can be quite hard to write that today.
Definitions of gender depend on promisogyny and antimisogyny
 
Thank you, I am always looking to learn on this topic.
I recommend reading and sometimes watching/listening to @MrMennoTweets on twitter or mrmenno on YouTube, his first name is Dutch(means strength) and also his last name, he's Dutch ,but speaks with a southern English accent, as he's lived where I am, in England ,for 20 years :)
 

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