micho313
Active Member
I am a rather high functioning Aspie. Many things day in and day out I can get through with little to no issue. However, one recurring obstacle for me is understanding what "Boundaries" are and the exact definition of what Personal Boundaries can be when referring to possessions. My main conflict within personal boundaries is when someone places something, such as an object in a communal area is how to not relocate this object to a more appropriate placement. For Instance, my partner puts a book down on a table in living room. She may in fact tell me not to touch this object, not to move this object. What do I do regardless of knowing her wishes to not interact with this object... I will move the object to a zone that makes sense to me, causing a conflict of course. Then despite this conflict, the next day I will do the exact same thing... I honestly want to change this behavior, however it seems to be greater than me. Even though it seems logical despite the wishes of my partner, I keep making the same mistake over and over and over... Curious if anyone else on this forum could share insight or perhaps their own perspectives.