Excess compliments and being too fast in certain areas

[Suzanne]

Excess compliments.

If I am in a three way convesation ( which is hard enough anyway) and one member is heavily praising the other member, I feel very uncomfortable and actually want to escape. It is not that I do not want others to be complimented; it is when it is over the top compliments and I actually find myself seeing the faults of the one being heavily complimented and end up almost hating them.

Difficult for me to admit this, because I feel rather ashamed of myself.

Being too fast.

Because of being in a situation that is not making me feel comfortable ie dr; hospital etc etc, I try to help them by endeavouring to be on the ball, but end up being faster than they and they often have told me to slow down.

Happened this morning. I just had my 3 month blood test for diabetes 2 ( in place of testing myself each day) and had everything laid out for the nurse ( happily, they come to my home), but when she was writing details, I asked her if she wanted my email and she said: slow down; you are being faster than me!

When I am being given instructions, unfortunately, I jump in because I know all about it ( having studied before), but the person gets annoyed with me, for trying to do his or her job.

I do try to slow down, which involves heavy mental control, which is also terribly tiring.

 

[Sherlock77]

Yup, yup, yup... I've been known to almost jump in too fast at times

 

[Suzanne]

Yup, yup, yup... I've been known to almost jump in too fast at times

Lol, I do it all the time, but for once, when the nurse, this morning said that I was too fast, I was able to laugh. Did feel a little crushed and well, picked on, but maintained a bit of sense of humour.

When you say: yes, yes, yes. Do you mean that about others being heavily complimented if there is just three of you?

 

[Streetwise]

I do it ,but I now know it's the excitable part of panic, that's still something I don't fully understand,I thought excitement was happiness but it's a strange scientific word ,still can't picture molecules being excited or toxins being exito toxins.
Mine happens when an animal or creature does something!

 

[Suzette]

Regarding compliments, when others are being excessive with praise it IS irritating. The flattery is just that, flattery. A disingenuous attempt to curry favor with another person. Otherwise known as a boot licker or brown noser.
Feeling irritated is just your b.s. alert system doing it's job.

On being fast, I used to get in trouble for being fast too. I have an ability to map systems and proceedures in my mind for uber efficiency. I look at these things like a big tetris puzzle and I find it fun to do and I am really good at it. But I have learned to take a back seat and let others figure things out, otherwise people feel "stepped on" I've been told.

 

[Aspychata]

Do l compliment? Well yes,because it's very NT to do so. Also it buys me time if l am having to construct some parallel thought about some type of ongoing situation usually taking place at work which has a big effect on all of us. It buys me time. But it does feel weird. I am not really fast, but l can organize quickly if l am motivated too. Like move quickly, or assess a ongoing situation and take correct action to prevent negligence. My employers usually love me for that.☺