As someone who has known true hunger as a child and adult, to the point where there was nothing in the house but baking powder and bay leaves, to where I had to learn herbalism, just so I could find edible weeds and not starve, I never could understand people who aren't hungry most of the time.
It's true, I do forget to eat, especially breakfast and lunch. But that does not mean I am not hungry!! I am always ready for a snacky. Like if you show up with cheesecake, french fries, a chicken cesar salad, um cookies, chips, or a full barbecue brisquet dinner, I am down to chow.
And don't even get me started on the Asian American Wonders that are Sushi Burritos, Spam Musubi, or Bubble Waffles.
I have a huge oral fixation. I love the flavors and textures of food. I like the happy way it makes my tummy feel. I like how it raises my blood sugar to a normal level.
Food is how I show love to others as well. Even if I'm nearly out of food, I like to make sure everyone who walks through my door leaves with a full belly. It's essential.
Not eating? Not liking eating? It's not just as different as Mars and Venus. It's like a whole other galaxy.
Bring me the goodies, n I'll share em with y'all.
And until then- just make yourself comfy on the couch, I'll be in the kitchen finishing up our lunch. I hope you brought your appetite.