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some/aspies/need/hugs/13

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Ok I recently moved to South Georgia to the city of Thomasville and I need some help.... See I want to find a young lady my age and I am healthy, I exercise daily, I can outpace most anyone on a bicycle, I also am kind, sensitive, caring, smart, and unlike most guys I have a high moral code I hold myself to. Also I am a teddy bear to my friends but very protective of them. I know what I want in a relationship namely I want a relationship where I can be myself not some facade that I play to fit in because the real me is sensitive and caring, loves to talk about emotions, hates sports unless I am playing them, can listen for hours to all a woman's problems and be perfectly happy. But I have digressed anyways basically I know what I want but I don't know where to go find people my age... I am 25 btw
 
Hope you do find her because you sound terrific. Best thing would be to find her while doing something you love.
 
Hi Hugs! Here is my idea, do things you enjoy and then find someone, instead of looking for someone in random ways.
Im not explaining it very well.
It's a slight change in focus...you do what you love like biking or hiking or whatever it is, and then let yourself meet someone with your interests.
Best wishes....
 
Do you have a job? Do you have the ability to drive (not a requirement, but very helpful, especially if you are not living/near downtown in a big city) or can you afford ride sharing costs and/or take public transportation when necessary?
These things can help you command your standards more.
Try to not look for a partner as someone you can depend on. Rather, just someone who you want to be around and vice versa.
 
Find someone that has a common interest as you. If you enjoy reading, I'd suggest the book store.
 
If you love to drive, especially in the city, and if your car is new enough, consider Lyft or Uber and PM me for a promo code.

Also, you can consider volunteering somewhere and that would be a great start for building up your skills toward a job.
 
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