From time to time this question pops up here, usually from newer members. And I'm always ready to provide this standard response which remains purely my own opinion. There's a difference why this is a more placid community than the world wide web at large. Because it's deliberately intended to be as such. I've accessed online forums since even before the Internet- or even Microsoft Windows. Most of them are tantamount to placing your hand in a blender and flipping the switch. Or entering a gladiatorial event. You want that? You give me the impression you aren't really aware of the hostility and schadenfreude that's out there just a few clicks away.
1. The servers and host reside in the United States, but not all the members. There are any number of members that are not legally subject to American civil rights and civil liberties simply because they don't physically reside here.
2. This is an online social community. In the eyes of domestic legal considerations and precedents, it's essentially a "club". So in the strictest legal sense the host is free to establish their own rules, whether or not they run contrary to American civil rights and civil liberties laws. In terms of American Constitutional law, that IS the law.
3. Conversely in terms of criminal law, both domestically and internationally both the server and host do have certain legal obligations to follow relative to the conduct of members and the staff. Other perceived civil legal obligations are more complex to outline in comparison. But controlling what is posted is in fact within our host's care, custody and control.
Keeping a lid on more controversial subjects and enforcing a code of conduct is what keeps the peace here compared to the rest of the world wide web at large. Take it away and this would become just another "online slaughterhouse". Where the meekest of members would be driven away in a heartbeat. In a nutshell, that's not what this place is about. Sure we're going to have lively discussions at times, but that is not intended to supersede trying to help and support autistic people and maintain a sense of community in the process.
To understand that this place is not only a community, but also a haven of sorts. An online refuge from an often hostile world that doesn't understand us. Surely you don't want to subtract from that equation, or simply make it all go away. Right?