Cosmic Light
Well-Known Member
I've grown more and more annoyed over these matters for years, to the point that I am now starting to actually get angry at myself for not knowing these things. Of the many interests and passions I've had in my life, the one biggest one will also be non-mainstream media, broadcasting, and basically anything verbal and creative. I'd love to work in radio, and I've always been drawn to pubic speaking. The fact that I have speech issues has never seemed a cause to stop me, but it does pee me right off when so many people say just go through a therapy program and then go on to try a life so reliant on speech. I think though that they miss the fact that I have AS entirely though because of the little speech thing. I'm posting on here though I don't post much (I mostly just read the forums,) thinking someone here might be able to relate and help me.
I am a YouTube vlogger. I want to be able to turn on the camera and just go. I want to be able to talk with confidence like the great vloggers of the internet world. In my own head I am just a as good as others. But every time things come out sounding awkward. My confidence doesn't show, hidden behind this screen of odd behaviors and speech patterns of AS. If I hear someone say just be confident once more I'd say I'd quit, but I know I won't. I love creative media too much to quit. How can I learn to seem as well spoken and confidant as I feel I am?
I am trying as of the past year too launch my "career" in internet radio too. It's such a competitive market at the best of times, but as odd as it might be for someone with AS I feel ready for the "Big kid's sandbox" so to speak. I can do competitive. Probably because of my AS I learned in life to compete for anything I want and to play hard and to get back up no matter how heard I fall. Recently though, I feel I managed to blow a chance I have been trying for for months to co-host with a far more successful "colleague." I spent a good part of our show trying to say something and realizing I have NO idea how to interrupt someone properly. The other two just conversed without me until it was obvious that no one thought I could do it anymore. This had happened twice. People just dive in front of me and steal my roles right out from under my nose and I can't do a thing about it because I don't know how, and short of losing my temper or seeming too immature, I have no idea how to stop them doing that repeatedly.
All the ideas in the world. As much creativity and willingness as anyone. Confidence and willingness to make a it of a fool of myself just because I can. And not a soul will even see the me that's hidden behind the clueless mess of social lack of grace. I can't give up because expression is my true passion, but I can;t go one for a lifetime like this either. I'll be crushed by life if I can't learn this stuff.
I am a YouTube vlogger. I want to be able to turn on the camera and just go. I want to be able to talk with confidence like the great vloggers of the internet world. In my own head I am just a as good as others. But every time things come out sounding awkward. My confidence doesn't show, hidden behind this screen of odd behaviors and speech patterns of AS. If I hear someone say just be confident once more I'd say I'd quit, but I know I won't. I love creative media too much to quit. How can I learn to seem as well spoken and confidant as I feel I am?
I am trying as of the past year too launch my "career" in internet radio too. It's such a competitive market at the best of times, but as odd as it might be for someone with AS I feel ready for the "Big kid's sandbox" so to speak. I can do competitive. Probably because of my AS I learned in life to compete for anything I want and to play hard and to get back up no matter how heard I fall. Recently though, I feel I managed to blow a chance I have been trying for for months to co-host with a far more successful "colleague." I spent a good part of our show trying to say something and realizing I have NO idea how to interrupt someone properly. The other two just conversed without me until it was obvious that no one thought I could do it anymore. This had happened twice. People just dive in front of me and steal my roles right out from under my nose and I can't do a thing about it because I don't know how, and short of losing my temper or seeming too immature, I have no idea how to stop them doing that repeatedly.
All the ideas in the world. As much creativity and willingness as anyone. Confidence and willingness to make a it of a fool of myself just because I can. And not a soul will even see the me that's hidden behind the clueless mess of social lack of grace. I can't give up because expression is my true passion, but I can;t go one for a lifetime like this either. I'll be crushed by life if I can't learn this stuff.