Has anyone you loved betrayed you deeply in a really evil way?

[lovely_darlingprettybaby]

Has anyone you love and were deeply faithful to, concealed something your whole life using harmful means and constantly lied about it and made you second guess yourself and then...
revealed it in the most evil way possible just when you thought things were finally looking up and good was going to happen in your life and happiness was breaking through after many years of pain, suffering and misery.
And after many people had betrayed and hurt you and abused you your whole life.

 

[Progster]

Yes, something bad happened to me, but I'll not go into details here because this thread is in the public part of the forum.

 

[Raggamuffin]

My first girlfriend cheated on me with several people, then took over my MSN and Hotmail accounts and changed my password and never returned them.

That was fun.

Ed

 

[Human Avatar]

Yes 2 people but I don’t feel like talking about it .

 

[Kisa the tea]

Yes but I won't say who here.

 

[Gerald Wilgus]

I never had loved anybody but my spouse, though I have great fondness for some. My peers did me great damage. I believe I have discussed it previously, but here goes.

Even isolated, I was overly trusting and would take things from my peers too seriously. Guys I thought of as friends and who knew of my social difficulties would share their sexual experiences with me. They sometimes denigrated the girls who accepted them sexually. Besides being cads, their messages made me feel profoundly broken and unwanted. Then a bit later in my research position at the Michigan Cancer Foundation, I had a strong crush on a woman. She was caring and I thought, beautiful, yet, I never had the courage to ask her out. One day, a guy I really did not like came up to me and told me that she was an exciting lay and that I should ask her out. I did not think my crush on her was that evident. I felt crestfallen, lower than a turd on hot asphalt, and nearly assaulted him: if I had I think I would have killed him.

 

[elgat0verde]

Everyone I've ever loved has betrayed me in a very evil way

My parents, my ex-wife, friends, girlfriends, etc

It seems to me that, since I was raised through a lot of abuse, manipulation and betrayal, it is what I looked for most of my life.

I honestly do not know what love is like because I've never felt it.

 

[Aspychata]

Yes, but l also have learned to forgive people. However, l have heard some really bad stories in Florida. One story was a lady who allowed their good friend , (attorney), for many years (dinner at each other's house), to sell their condo. He up and stole the proceeds. As her ex had just recently died, she was in too much shock and never went after him. So when it comes to money, be careful who you allow to handle your business. Her condo was a primary part of her retirement and she is now forced to live in apartments.