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dorothygarcia31

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Hi! I'm new here. I don't know anyone else with autism. I was diagnosed when I was in my early twenties. I'm in my early 50's now. I thought I had autism since late childhood / adolescence, since many people told me about it and thought I had it, but I had a lot of family problems and didn't get diagnosed until I went to college and got a referral to an Autism specialist to evaluate me. I was diagnosed with classic autism. I am high functioning. Although I guess now it is ASD for everyone and things have changed. I am not really up to speed on any new terms or diagnostic criteria, but I have social, communication, sensory and repetitive issues as well as anxiety and depression. These past couple of years I've struggled with my Autism a lot and I just wanted to look for other Autistic people to spend time online with.
 
You have found a welcoming, responsive and lively group of individuals. We all share some of what you mentioned to some degree or another so you will not be looked upon as strange or unusual. Please join in and a warm welcome to the forums.
 
Hello and welcome! I hope you find everything you’re looking for here on the forum. Let us know if you need any help figuring out the site. There are lots of different elements to explore and many interesting people here.
 
Welcome. I also came here seeking to connect with other autistics - they say that friends are the family you choose, and I've definitely found my found family here.
 
Welcome, @dorothygarcia31 , your issues are familiar to many of us. Some of us have persevered to mitigate a few things that NTs consider deficits and carve out a space for ourselves. This past year i was dealing with PTSD from my isolation as a teen and young adult, some 40 to 50 years ago.
 
Hi and welcome I hope that you enjoy it here and feel understood, we have some similar challenges, so your experiences are likely shared by some here. It's good that you found us.
 
Hi! I'm new here. I don't know anyone else with autism. I was diagnosed when I was in my early twenties. I'm in my early 50's now. I thought I had autism since late childhood / adolescence, since many people told me about it and thought I had it, but I had a lot of family problems and didn't get diagnosed until I went to college and got a referral to an Autism specialist to evaluate me. I was diagnosed with classic autism. I am high functioning. Although I guess now it is ASD for everyone and things have changed. I am not really up to speed on any new terms or diagnostic criteria, but I have social, communication, sensory and repetitive issues as well as anxiety and depression. These past couple of years I've struggled with my Autism a lot and I just wanted to look for other Autistic people to spend time online with.
Hi. If you are looking for a few autistic people to interact with, you stumbled onto a population cluster here. By one of those strange coincidences that only occur in a bad movie or real life, most of us here on the AutismForums just happen to be autistic. You are in good company here.
 
Hi! I'm new here. I don't know anyone else with autism. I was diagnosed when I was in my early twenties. I'm in my early 50's now. I thought I had autism since late childhood / adolescence, since many people told me about it and thought I had it, but I had a lot of family problems and didn't get diagnosed until I went to college and got a referral to an Autism specialist to evaluate me. I was diagnosed with classic autism. I am high functioning. Although I guess now it is ASD for everyone and things have changed. I am not really up to speed on any new terms or diagnostic criteria, but I have social, communication, sensory and repetitive issues as well as anxiety and depression. These past couple of years I've struggled with my Autism a lot and I just wanted to look for other Autistic people to spend time online with.
Hello and welcome! I expect you'll like it here. Thanks for sharing your experience--we're all here for you! :)
 
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Hi! I'm new here. I don't know anyone else with autism. I was diagnosed when I was in my early twenties. I'm in my early 50's now. I thought I had autism since late childhood / adolescence, since many people told me about it and thought I had it, but I had a lot of family problems and didn't get diagnosed until I went to college and got a referral to an Autism specialist to evaluate me. I was diagnosed with classic autism. I am high functioning. Although I guess now it is ASD for everyone and things have changed. I am not really up to speed on any new terms or diagnostic criteria, but I have social, communication, sensory and repetitive issues as well as anxiety and depression. These past couple of years I've struggled with my Autism a lot and I just wanted to look for other Autistic people to spend time online with.
Welcome to the Forum, I am not in the spectrum, but my son is, and I have met many friends on here and learned a lot. It is a wonderful place to meet new people and express your feelings and get answers.
 
I'm Kayla, and about same age as you. I am looking for female friends as I hardly have any, struggle to relate.
I suppose I'm older and worked through most of this so I may be more analytical than sharing n feeling in moment.
Suppose I'm still around a bit, working hard to try start a school but thinking more of a home school group for asd so I'll be getting busy soon and probably leave the weird n wacky world of asd
 
I would be happy to be your friend! I home schooled my 5 kids, and man I wish someone would have had a home school group for my kids to join. I guess I hadn't thought that each kid is on a different grade level and so it is teaching all separately. I think that is wonderful to start a school, do you live in the States?
 
I would be happy to be your friend! I home schooled my 5 kids, and man I wish someone would have had a home school group for my kids to join. I guess I hadn't thought that each kid is on a different grade level and so it is teaching all separately. I think that is wonderful to start a school, do you live in the States?
RSA, I home schooled before but yes, it's a lot of work and I just feel teachers have experience. My son's inclusion didn't do so well as needs language support all time so this time a group lifts some work, keep up etc. Etc.
You said you not on spectrum, makes sense cause few members can connect but I get lots of likes or more posts and must be communication gap as just saying thinking of going back to bipolar support as Chattier, still weird n wacky.

It's nice to chat about kids (what ages are yours) I find most advice here isn't practical, guys useful on writing techniques but then again men aren't as involved, so.
 
I would be happy to be your friend! I home schooled my 5 kids, and man I wish someone would have had a home school group for my kids to join. I guess I hadn't thought that each kid is on a different grade level and so it is teaching all separately. I think that is wonderful to start a school, do you live in the States?
Just to add to the forum advice....
I suppose it's insightful to read up what aspies say, some advice is more in agreeing with similar experience,
ASD is messy,
I'm very very high functioning. As in on bipolar thread we agreed that people can make you bipolar and if you don't handle it loose space in workplace. I've also dealt with shauvenism trying to keep me back in life so despite all this I worked and was funtional.
I'm conservative in my behaviour but I'm a radical thinker.... My answers are radical but my life is humble. My thinking is very different from men, but my logic is sound.
If that makes any sense
 
RSA, I home schooled before but yes, it's a lot of work and I just feel teachers have experience. My son's inclusion didn't do so well as needs language support all time so this time a group lifts some work, keep up etc. Etc.
You said you not on spectrum, makes sense cause few members can connect but I get lots of likes or more posts and must be communication gap as just saying thinking of going back to bipolar support as Chattier, still weird n wacky.

It's nice to chat about kids (what ages are yours) I find most advice here isn't practical, guys useful on writing techniques but then again men aren't as involved, so.
My oldest daughter is 38, then my next daughter is 36, then I had 3 boys who are 34, 32, and 29. My son who is 34 is the one diagnosed with borderline ASD. He is high functioning also, but he has physical problems as well with U.C. which he takes Humira for (even though I do not like him being on that, his bleeding is hard to stop and since he is grown with a mind of his own, he wanted to take it) How many kids do you have?
I have to say the one thing I really overlooked while home schooling is that every book, every computer program, every lesson is in print. No cursive! When teaching them cursive I wasn't strong enough and of course they learned it and read all the time but are not strong at cursive, they tend to print everything. (My youngest son, when he went to the high school to take drivers Ed fell behind because he wasn't fast as the other kids with reading cursive. I have to admit when I went to the school to talk to the drivers ed teacher I could barely read his cursive. It was really bad! The teacher said my son could bring in a tape recorder instead of copying what was on the board, but my son wanted to drop out because he didn't want special treatment, it made him feel he had a handicap, and he didn't like that, so he waited to get his license until he was 18.

Do you want to just do private chat?

Also, my son with the ASD was so hard to teach, even though he was probably the smartest one, when he decided he didn't want to do something he just wouldn't do it! No matter what I did I couldn't make him do what the rest of the kids just did. If I put him in time out, he would just get up and walk away, if I sat him down and talked to him, it didn't matter he still wouldn't do it. He is very intelligent, the things he knows just amazes me. I can ask him anything and he knows the answer to it without being taught it. He can figure out anything, but the problem is his favorite saying is what's the point?
 

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