Hi

[Chester09]

My name is Caleb. Aspergers has been a big problem for me all my life.

 

[Shalott]

Welcome to the forum, Caleb!
So sorry to hear that. I'm just being introduced to the world of Asperger's and I'm beginning to be aware is a tough one. I hope you can find some help in here with others' experiences to cope better in your everyday life.
And if there's anything we can do, just ask. I'm sure the people here are willing to help you as much as I am.
See you around!

 

[Suzanne]

Hello Caleb ( love your name)

Yes, since joining aspiecentral, it is quite evident to me, that actually, the later one finds out, the better psychologically it is. I guess because if you know right from the beginning that you have aspergers, it can hang over your head like a bad vibe and cause untold issues; whereas for us, who find out much later, it is with a deep sense of relief to finally know the reason for how strange we are and wow for me, it is pretty empowering, as well as scary, because not everyone knows what it is and not everyone cares and thus, you are still seen as bizarre.

Those who know me, have got used to me liking a lot of solitude and do leave me alone, which is both, a relief and lol makes me sad, because I would LOVE to interact wonderfully with everyone. When I feel comfortable, I am pretty social. I love to laugh and smile and be happy.

You will find tons of inspiration on here and hope, it will help you to accept that you are unique and at the same time, not unique.

 

[Tom]

Welcome to AC. I hope you can get involved in some conversations here.

 

[StephF]

Hi

 

[Aspergirl4hire]

Hi, Caleb,

It's a tough thing, our "gift." I've often thought it benefits the communities we're in, not we ourselves; who else blows the whistle? Or defines black and white in a world of grey?

Glad you could join us. I hope you can find here whatever it is you're looking for.
Welcome.

 

[wyverary]

Welcome to the forums! I hope you'll find some encouragement here, and learn from other members' positive (and negative) experiences.

 

[Chester09]

Thank you all for the replies. My biggest problem is not catching up to social queues and not having friends as a result. Im also shy, probably because I cant communicate well and am afraid of upsetting people. Id like to improve my social skills.

 

[Shalott]

Well, I'm afraid I can't tell you much about the AS world, but if you need any help with NTs I think I can give you some advice. Just make me now
Besides, there're a lot of good books recommended in this site and threads where you can find more info about improving your communication skills and tips from members.

 

[EdR]

I too have the same problem and am also searching for a solution. A magic pill would be ideal, but there doesn't seem to be one.

I started therapy about a month ago, and while therapy has yet to provide assistance, I have taken great comfort from the awareness of my "gift". My assignment from last weeks session was to observe people and watch for social cues. Despite my being a skilled engineer with first class observational skills, I have failed to identify a single social cue. I am starting to think that I need someone to punch someone; that I would recognize.

Regardless, I continue my quest and hope that both of us succeed.

 

[Rocco]

Welcome aboard

 

[Chester09]

Thanks Rocco. Love the name. Interesting picture.