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[richbebo]

Hi people, i signed up to this yesterday and have already made a few posts, i'm 21 and i have aspergers. I have always known i have aspergers all my life but have never really known what it does and hadnt until now really bothered to learn about it.I've always just thought of it as some minor thing and not the reason for all of my extra hard trouble fitting in and talking to people, so really i feel like i have only just been diognosed. I am not a dumb person even though i get called it sometimes and my grades werent great at school. My inteligence shows when i talk about my obsessions and i clearly know what i'm talking about, i also take pride in my spelling so feel free to point out any spelling mistakes lol. I think its great that there is forums for this kinda thing and it really makes me feel like i fit in somewere and also proud of who i am. Not knowing i had being an aspie to fall back on i have not let it be an ascuse i think has helped me develope socialy almost like beng thrown in the deep end where its either learn to swim or drown, so i can happily say i have close freinds and have learned much about fitting in and i believe anyone here on the forum can too if they are patient and dont give themselves a hard time when failing. Thanks.

 

[chinaberry]

Hallo!

You seem smart, don't worry

 

[Sean2222]

Hallo!

You seem smart, don't worry

Pfft anyone who has to refer to their own intelligence and how it shows is well... Annoying. Did I leave out self righteous, conceited, full of themselves, and stereotypically male.



-sean-

 

[Sean2222]

I don't agree with this. So what if the guy calls himself intelligent? It's better than him putting himself down.

I'm doing him a favor by putting him down. It counteracts the overly unrealistic full of himself vibe that distorts that whole self-analysis and makes it very boring, annoying, self-serving, and predictable. You don't have to look very far into yourself to find modesty and humility. Your shadow holds many keys to what make up your personality, good and bad. But you can easily disguise it all through smoke and mirrors with facetious talk like that rather than actually being more open to how you truly are. He isn't covering anyone else's eyes but his own. Nothing wrong with some positivity and confidence, yet he seems like he is trying more to convince himself more than anyone else of 'how smart' he is...


-sean-

 

[chinaberry]

Pfft anyone who has to refer to their own intelligence and how it shows is well... Annoying. Did I leave out self righteous, conceited, full of themselves, and stereotypically male.



-sean-

Pfft yourself! Are you joking?
That's exactly what you've done! Talking about how no one else is on your level etc, loads of posts.
You're mistaking the mirror for him.

 

[Sean2222]

Pfft yourself! Are you joking?
That's exactly what you've done! Talking about how no one else is on your level etc, loads of posts.
You're mistaking the mirror for him.

When I said others weren't on my level it was accurate China. I referred to males, because they aren't. If they were we owuld be able to relate to each other. I hate them, that's been well established and with good reason. That's never going to change. Anyone that knows me, knows why that is the case and understands fully.

I'm not putting out an essay about myself that misrepresents anything about myself just to be accepted on a public forum. Or to make myself feel good. What I say is 100% truth and no distortions. That's the difference. His is pure self-serving bs just for the sake of male validation. I don't need any validation, I don't need to be liked or accepted, that's another difference.

That's why you dignify my posts with responses because you want me to like you, but in effect I really don't have to. I could totally ignore every post you make and not even blink. But then what would you do, I guesd just find someone else to follow and argue with ? I do like watching you squirm however. Trying so hard to use my words against me, when you can't :rofl: . Desperately following me around to get the last word in when you don't agree with me. You know you don't have to agree with everything everyone says, that's why this world is so unusual, because nobody truly is the same as anyone else.

Here's the thing about people that tell the truth and actually know what they are talking about, you can't really make them look bad with their own words. But you can keep trying though, I find it fun to watch you try to with me

So pfft back at you China You can defend his lack of truth and his hypocrisy all you want but even he knows he is only fooling himself and not anyone else.

Oh btw, I suggest you start ignoring all of my posts China. Forget about me. If not for some amusement, I already forgot about you on that level after about the third post of yours that I read. Because you will only be talking to yourself if you reply to me anymore. That's the only healthy solution I see. Oh and your flaws are safe with me, I don't judge. I actually found you somewhat likeable, if not a puzzle of opposites or contradictions. That's actually where all the holes in your arguments come from. And the need to nitpick others to find theirs. But I'm done analyzing you, you're no fun anymore . So again, please ignore me.

Bye China.

-sean-

 

[chinaberry]

That's why you dignify my posts with responses because you want me to like you, but in effect I really don't have to. I could totally ignore every post you make and not even blink. But then what would you do, I guesd just find someone else to follow and argue with ? I do like watching you squirm however. Trying so hard to use my words against me, when you can't :rofl: . Desperately following me around to get the last word in when you don't agree with me. You know you don't have to agree with everything everyone says, that's why this world is so unusual, because nobody truly is the same as anyone else.

Here's the thing about people that tell the truth and actually know what they are talking about, you can't really make them look bad with their own words. But you can keep trying though, I find it fun to watch you try to with me

So pfft back at you China You can defend his lack of truth and his hypocrisy all you want but even he knows he is only fooling himself and not anyone else.

Bye China.

-sean-

Do you think everyone who deigns to reply to you is obsessed with you? By your logic, surely then I'd also be obsessed with Nerd by Default and defending him. Truth is that the forum is quiet and people pounce on controversy. I don't need a person on the internet to like, because I have friends for that (low blow on an Aspie forum ). No, my problem is purely arrogance, which just happens to manifest itself in the form of you in every thread you post in... (don't feel honoured at that, there's lots like you). The problem is that you're v. up yourself. (Not sure you know what 'hypocrisy' means btw...a lot of people get it wrong.)
I'm not the one who writes essay length replies either.

 

[richbebo]

Listen Sean, i really dont know what your problem is, and why you must keep commenting on my posts with negative stupid up your own arse comments. I have NEVER insulted you as you claim, but instead so far you have done a pretty good job of trying to insult me, and i ask you why. What exactly is your problem with me, all i have done is politely introduced myself to this forum and now you have for no reason gone out of your way to ridicule me and that sounds like someone who has an ego to protect (thats what bullies and dicks do). So dont put me down because i am not a negative pessimist like you. If you have a problem because i am happy with myself and might even go as far as saying i love myself then you got a problem. Maybe i seem so full of myself because i want to show people that having a dissorder such as aspergers doesnt mean you cant be happy and now ask yourself what the **** is wrong with that. I think you have a problem with me cause you feel intimidated by my optimism which to be quite frank is actually ****ing pathetic. so why dont you prove me wrong and stop sending me horrid messages like you do and stop being such a attention seeking baby. Or you can carry on, to be honest i dont really give a **** either way i'm not going to let you be even a blip on my radar.

 

[richbebo]

"surely then I'd also be obsessed with Nerd by Default and defending him"

I've grown pretty fond of you chinaberry

 

[richbebo]

ooo i dunno bout canadians lol jokes, and yep

 

[chinaberry]

I've grown pretty fond of you chinaberry

That's sweet, you're cool too
Verging on a weak obsession? Maybe not that far.