Hello! I am new here and therefore just beginning my journey in understanding the disorders of the autistic spector. Also, I am not a native English speaker and I apologize for possible mistakes of the auto-translator
I would like to make friends with my cousin. He is 3 years old and was diagnosed with autism six months ago. At present: he does not talk at all, repeats movements with his hands, moos or shouts, moves a lot and does not respond to his name or requests
His family came to our town for the summer and stayed with his grandmother so that he could safely play in the yard and garden without unnecessary glances from passers-by
For the last 3 days, I've been trying to play with him. I already realized that he would not play like other children and tried to repeat after him. We tore up the grass in the yard together, and then threw it up, played "airplane" when I picked him up and circled (he really likes it) and just was with him when, in rare moments, he looked into my eyes for a few seconds and smiled. He is indifferent to toys, books, rattles and the like. He also gets very upset when he sees my glasses and tries to take them off (I have poor eyesight. I had to take them off and navigate by the colored spots).
My question is, what kind of games did you like as a child (if you have asd), or your child/friend/family member with asd?
I would also be very grateful for advice on how to help him develop his speech (he can make sounds and words reminiscent of mama, but only in moments of stress). I've heard that sign language is also useful in this case, is it true?
I would also like to mention that his parents also know little about autism and are just learning to take care of such a child, so they will not be able to ask them about many things. I didn't find much information in my native language and I would be grateful to anyone who responds.
I would like to make friends with my cousin. He is 3 years old and was diagnosed with autism six months ago. At present: he does not talk at all, repeats movements with his hands, moos or shouts, moves a lot and does not respond to his name or requests
His family came to our town for the summer and stayed with his grandmother so that he could safely play in the yard and garden without unnecessary glances from passers-by
For the last 3 days, I've been trying to play with him. I already realized that he would not play like other children and tried to repeat after him. We tore up the grass in the yard together, and then threw it up, played "airplane" when I picked him up and circled (he really likes it) and just was with him when, in rare moments, he looked into my eyes for a few seconds and smiled. He is indifferent to toys, books, rattles and the like. He also gets very upset when he sees my glasses and tries to take them off (I have poor eyesight. I had to take them off and navigate by the colored spots).
My question is, what kind of games did you like as a child (if you have asd), or your child/friend/family member with asd?
I would also be very grateful for advice on how to help him develop his speech (he can make sounds and words reminiscent of mama, but only in moments of stress). I've heard that sign language is also useful in this case, is it true?
I would also like to mention that his parents also know little about autism and are just learning to take care of such a child, so they will not be able to ask them about many things. I didn't find much information in my native language and I would be grateful to anyone who responds.