How to form a neurotypical relationship?

[BradT]

I have aspergers and I really want to find someone one day, how would I get a typical neurotypical woman to like me?

 

[The Penguin]

The question is too complex as each women wants something different in a person. I find the main key thing is a person to accept you as is.

 

[Suzanne]

I am a female aspie married to a male NT and next monday, will be our 26th. It is an uphill struggle and my husband is not one for wanting to compromise; expects me to "compromise" with him and is a competitive person and I am not, but often made into one, due to my severe need of justice and logically reasoning, but we battle through, because we both want and need to.

Many women find aspie men endearing, because of a nuturing nature and so, when you embark on an interest, let her know straight away that you have aspergers and if she is worth her weight, she will ask you about it and you can see how she fairs with your traits.

Despite all the complications of being married to an NT, I have decided that I am glad to be married to an NT, because he is able to teach me social skills that if I had been married to a male aspie, I am pretty sure, we would both be very bewhilered, but my husband, when I explain a confusion, does explain it to me and because he is not one to "pamper" to another's disadvantages, it helps me to strive to be a better me.

 

[Dadwith2Autisticsons]

I have aspergers and I really want to find someone one day, how would I get a typical neurotypical woman to like me?

Be yourself! For all those women who are looking for something different, you should want them to go far away, as they would make you miserable for who they are as a person for judging you badly and in not appreciating you, and for likely trying to change you. You only need one person, not those other many who want something else.

But, here is another thing to consider, too: Do not accept an NT woman just because she likes you or looks decent if she does not share your same values, as if she does not offer much else for you things will be short lived. Too many guys settle for a woman regardless of personality, because they think they cannot do better, and will be alone otherwise.

The woman should offer the man just as much as he offers them. This is where your self-esteem needs to possibly improve though and where you need to determine which traits in a woman are needed for you to make the relationship long lasting. Once you get more self-esteem, you will want more than an NT lady, and as there will be more interest in you.

Once you feel better about yourself and know more what you want in a woman, in terms of personality and interests, then show yourself in those places online and in public, where that type of woman would more apt to be. With more confidence, more will show interest, and then you can pick which one of those that you think would be the best fit.

 

[Momo]

Different women will want different things, but one thing I think most women like is confidence. If you are confident in who you are, you'll be a real chick-magnet