So I have a close friend who is an "aspie" his family told me this in hushed tones before I met him (I was friends with his family first) he is a good friend of mine now and tends to come round once a week (and has been for about four years) I took the time to find out as much as possible about asbergers long ago, reading threads on sites like this one, to better understand him. Last year, I decided to fess up to him that I knew, as it became apparent that he would never admit it. He always spoke of how alone he felt at home, and how he can't relate to his family, I wanted to Help him understand why. Anyway, he said he doesn't want to be different and is happy to pretend not to be, that he is ashamed of it. He never brought it up again.
So last week he said to me "you know what I just realised? I have trouble being social with people" and I nearly fell off my chair. He doesn't seem to know what asbergers is! I spoke to his mum and she said when he was diagnosed he was to young to understand, and now he won't talk about it. Should I talk to him about it anymore or will he eventually start to ask questions when he's older, he's 21. What's your story about learning about this?
So last week he said to me "you know what I just realised? I have trouble being social with people" and I nearly fell off my chair. He doesn't seem to know what asbergers is! I spoke to his mum and she said when he was diagnosed he was to young to understand, and now he won't talk about it. Should I talk to him about it anymore or will he eventually start to ask questions when he's older, he's 21. What's your story about learning about this?