How to Make Friends?

[rosa]

As much as I try, I almost never get to to like people, to be with people. For me it's hard to talk and maintain a pleasant conversation. I believe that the responsibility for that is mine, basically because I think more in process optimization. I like solutions, not excuses or complaints or demands.
I also do not like when they meddle in my life. But in the end, is it always like this? I don´t think so, but I really do not know how to make friends.

 

[Grumpy Cat]

A real friendship will take time to evolve in what you're looking for. A friend will have to know things about your life in order to bond - it's not meddling. It's give and take. You have to be willing to share things about you and be interested in things they share. A really good friendship takes a lot of work - kinda like a marriage does, but it's worth it in the end to have someone you can trust and confide in and to have someone that actually cares what happens to you. Real friends, though, are few and far between. I have four.