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Sensitive Topic Humiliated Target employee and veteran killed himself 'after being wrongly accused of stealing'...

AGXStarseed

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(Not written by me. The following is a sensitive topic).

Humiliated Target employee and veteran killed himself 'after being wrongly accused of stealing by co-workers and paraded around the store in handcuffs as punishment'

  • Graham Gentles of Pasadena, California, committed suicide three days after he was accused of stealing at the Target where he worked
  • Graham was 'paraded' around the store in handcuffs as punishment for stealing even though he was never charged and nothing was found
  • He suffered 'severe emotional distress' as a result of the situation, which was made worse by his Asperger's Syndrome says his mother Virginia
  • Virginia has now filed a lawsuit against target for not just her son's death but also to end the company's 'walk of shame' practice


A Target employee committed suicide just days after he was accused of stealing at the store.

Graham Gentles, a 22-year-old from Pasadena, California who has Asperger's Syndrome, was 'paraded, around the store in handcuffs as a punishment for stealing, even though police and store management never found anything and he was never charged.

Three days after the incident, on July 18 of last year, he jumped to his death from the roof of the Courtyard Marriott in Monrovia.

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Graham Gentles (above) jumped off a building just days after he was accused of stealing at the Target where he is employed

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Gentiles, who has recently enlisted, had Asperger's Syndrome


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Gentiles was put in handcuffs and forced to do the 'walk of shame' at Target after it was believed he had stolen



Now, Graham's mother, Virginia, is taking legal action against the company, not just for the death of her son, but to make sure this 'walk of shame' practice is ended in all of their stores.

'He said, "Mom, I've never stolen,"' Virginia recalled of that day in an interview with ABC 7.

'He said, "They did the walk of shame, I had to do the walk of shame. But they only do that when people steal and I've never stolen a thing."'

She also told NBC 4; 'The only thing he said to me at that moment was, "Mom this is the worst day of my life."'

Her attorney, Patrick McNicholas, added; 'This was part of his extended family. He had indicated that he felt safe there. This is where his friends were, so he felt as though he lost all of that in one moment.'

Target has refused to comment due to the pending litigation.


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Mother Virginia (above with Graham) believes this was all the result of an argument that occurred between her son, who had recently enlisted, and a coworker at a bar during non-work hours

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His mother Virginia claims the suicide was a result of the 'severe distress' he felt after being paraded around the store for stealing

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He jumped to his death from the roof of the Courtyard Marriott in Monrovia (above)


Virginia believes this was all the result of an argument that occurred between her son, who had recently enlisted, and a coworker at a bar during non-work hours.

She believes the individual who fought with Graham had reported that he had stolen, which is why when he went to leave that day he was met by police and management.

According to the suit, 'police forcefully grabbed him, emptied his pockets and pulled his hat off.'

Then, 'he was handcuffed and led to an office,' at the direction of a store manager.

'Gentles was shocked, confused and mortified at being handcuffed and walked through the Target store in front of co-workers and store customers. Mr. Gentles had no idea why he was being arrested,' says the complaint.

According to the suit, this resulted in 'severe emotional distress,' something that was made even worse by his Asperger's condition claims his mother, and ultimately his suicide.

'One of the primary purposes of this lawsuit is that Target stops the policy immediately [and] recognizes the harm that it could do,' said McNicholas.

'I don't want any other mother to have to go through what I've gone through,' said Virginia.

'This is my only child.'

Video: http://abc7.com/video/embed/?pid=488247#videoplayer


SOURCE ARTICLE: Target employee committed suicide 'after wrongfully accused of stealing' | Daily Mail Online

 
This made me so sad I can hardly speak. But thank you for posting it. It is important to remember what it is like, I mean what it is like for other people. Hm, that isn't exactly what I mean. I avoid being in public because I don't know what's happening and working is just as hard. I've tried to explain to people how scary it is when you believe you are doing the same thing when you had no trouble and then you have huge trouble. You cannot predict your safety. It is terrifying. I don't know how the NT world works but I will quote from a book, "There are things that whether or not you understand them, can affect you."

I know that is obvious but it's important to me to remember. As an aspie I always try to understand something so I can make decisions about it. But because I can not understand something does not mean it won't affect me. This could have been me working at Target and getting in trouble, for do nothing wrong. I think aspies could be arrested for serious crimes and even go to prison only because we do not understand what is happening. I don't know what we are going to do.

I am very sorry for this man and his mother who will miss him.
 
One more reason to avoid working at corporations. They're pure evil, methinks.

What's with the handcuffs? Usually when you're suspected of stealing, Corporate Secret Service abducts you and locks you in a little room for their own interrogation before the cops are involved. I saw Walmart do it to a guy. Four huge dudes suddenly appeared out of nowhere and then vanished with him, like some kind of twisted trapdoor spiders. I didn't even know there was a door there in that part of the wall!
 
Just wondering - what is the significance of him being a veteran? Its not even mentioned in the article, so I'm unsure how it relates.
One of the captions says he had just enlisted but that certainly isn't veteran status is it? Confused!
 
Just wondering - what is the significance of him being a veteran? Its not even mentioned in the article, so I'm unsure how it relates.
One of the captions says he had just enlisted but that certainly isn't veteran status is it? Confused!
It's the Daily Mail, which is not known for its...reliability.
 
Insurers are keen to know whatever loss control safeguards and procedures are in place to guard against theft and fidelity matters. However such "old school" practices these days create more liabilities than solutions pertaining to inventory control.

Gentles was never arrested, let alone charged for any crime and released the same day. My guess is that Target will simply settle cutting a rather large check to the litigant behind closed doors, and claim no guilt or responsibility with a confidentiality agreement.
 
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