i dont fit in any community do you feel the same?

[dadko20]

i dont feel like i belong anywhere and i cannot make deep connections with people . after my parents pass away i might be all alone with no friends or partner for the rest of my life. is this a autism trait? i had one autistic friend but i lost his number , i have no one but God

not complaining but rather acceptance has set me free

 

[NB79]

I relate a lot. Don't seem to be able to make friendships. Is supposed to be the main autistic issue, socializing and relationships.

 

[Rodafina]

@dadko20
It’s a very common feeling expressed frequently here on the forum. Strangely, you are not at all alone in your feelings of aloneness.

I completely agree that acceptance is the key and in the freedom that brings, sometimes we can find other things about life that are wonderful, satisfying, and fulfilling beyond just “fitting in.”

 

[Xinyta]

It's okay to be alone. 'Fitting in' is a socail trap anyway.

Having people you know around to talk to, is nice. But friends are something that come from experience and knowing a person on a emotional level. There is a mutual understanding.

But sadly. This current generation isn't about that kinda civility. At least not to the same level that it use to be. Though the corruption of minds via socail media, has alot of a role on that.

 

[Shevek]

I got the Aspie from my mom, so it came with a major attachment disorder too. I've felt like various groups were my true family over the years, but now, I see that each one has major problems in its founding assumptions which must not be mentioned. I notice being alone more in December.