I finally realize im a Feminist

[AspieOtaku]

After a long time trolling feminists out of frustration of being a male victim of rape from a female and the radicals telling me to cry a river i woke up after being vulnurable for once and opening up and femists listened i feel better and no hate, im pro choice and support equality, im sex possitive, pro consent, anti misandry thats sexism and on the same side against toxic masculinity, it hurtd both men and women, when i was raped i was told to man up when i want to cry im seen weak. Im done with that.

 

[Graphin]

and I'm very confused

 

[AspieOtaku]

Im a feminist, im awake now pro equality for all sex possitive and not anti male, all equal male female and pro lgbt and calling out fake feminists like witchwind and femitheist.We are equal and must work with eachother and end the hate, the patriarchy and toxic masculinity. Masculinity alone is not bad for men its the unrealistic expectations men cannot cry or show emotions like women or they are seen ad weak and not men.Toxic masculinity is the problem.

 

[AspieOtaku]

I go by Charlie Chaplins speech, it motivates me to be a man and do good things the system he mentions that makes machine men is the Patriarchy. True men have love and gentleness.

 

[AspieOtaku]

Wrong Planet has not seen this progress in me but its too late its become to toxic there so banning me was their mistake and getting progress here.

After listening to feminists overcoming my abuse im starting to realize they care and now finally siding with them, we both agree with consent and my ex was evil and they see her abusive acts as reprehensible and shes no feminist and that some women can be as evil as men.

So there ya have it although im male, im a feminist, not radical but rational, im a feminist.I give up, i surrender Im a feminist.I may be a feminist but not an SJW they are jerks.

 

[AspieOtaku]

and I'm very confused

To help with confusuion im a feminist, i buried the hatchet for the wrong people they are not my enemy i find peace.

 

[Streetwise]

Wrong Planet has not seen this progress in me but its too late its become to toxic there so banning me was their mistake and getting progress here.

It’s their loss

 

[Streetwise]

To help with confusuion im a feminist, i buried the hatchet for the wrong people they are not my enemy i find peace.

I never understood why men didn’t like basic feminism ,it’s just not being selfish or cruel! but I find it very !!!hard to understand psychology .

 

[AspieOtaku]

I never understood why men didn’t like basic feminism ,it’s just not being selfish or cruel! but I find it very !!!hard to understand psychology .

Originally many men have been tought feminism is anti male but its not the case usially propaganda by radicals that give the wrong message but to hell with them.

 

[AspieOtaku]

Im a feminist and will fight radical feminists to maintain peace and balance and end hate.Re educate them and tell them being anti male is antifeminist and they are just as sexist, sexism is not welcome against men or women it must be equal and demonizing men or women goes against the agenda. Sexism is sexism, sexism against men or women is not acceptable. We must realize that and work together.

 

[AspieOtaku]

Mysogyny has no place neither does Misandry, we must work together and end hate and im on board for that, i hate hate.

 

[AspieOtaku]

After helping me out feminists and caring about me and listening to me you have earned the strongest ally ever and im on your side.Used to be a troll but no more if trolls come your way ill protect you and educate them, i know all their tactics and wake em up and mayby bring them over to our side.

Next feminist i see will ask for consent for a hug, i really need one if she consents ill hug her but wont promise i wont cry because i will cry out of happyness someone cares.

 

[AspieOtaku]

Very emotional now, would like to hug but will cry trying to hold back tears

 

[AGXStarseed]

I never understood why men didn’t like basic feminism ,it’s just not being selfish or cruel! but I find it very !!!hard to understand psychology .

I think (and I admit I could be wrong) its because radical feminists, dubbed "Feminazis" by many, have given the group such a bad name - as well as it seeming that the radicals get the most airtime/screentime, whether that's on TV or on YouTube.
So, when guys think of Feminism, the first thing that comes to mind is the radicals of the group - which puts a lot of people off (I think for most people, we hear something and generally assume the worst).
I've also heard a few females online who refuse to identify as Feminist or who once identified as Feminist but now no longer do.
The most notable from my point-of-view is Cassie Jaye, who sought to 'expose' the Men's Rights Movement but ultimately came away no longer classifying herself as a feminist and directing "The Red Pill" in 2016; a film Feminists tried and succeeded in banning in several places and which she did a TED talk about.

Despite this, I have met Feminists (and even work with one) who are genuinely nice people and who don't fit with (or agree with) the radicals of the group.
So all that said, I'm sorry to AspieOtaku that you went through such a horrible experience and I wish you all the best with your choice to become a feminist.
Peace, buddy.

 

[Aspychata]

Sorry to hear of the trauma of what you endured. Woman and men suffer everyday from this and all we can do is support each other. Hope you can truly forgive and let go because to stay in the darkness will keep the endless path of bad thoughts, depressive ruination and playing the anger dialogue. To release the repetitive thought pattern, you actually free yourself to love you, the part that was taken advantage of and you allow that to heal and quiet the dialogue in your head and replace those thoughts with the mantra, l am a healthly survivor, it's now okay to love me and l welcome others to do the same.

 

[jorgealarcon]

Rape can happen to either sex. When someone tells you to "man up", they don't understand fully the emotional part of the situation. Thanks for opening up.

 

[Alexej]

.. will cry trying to hold back tears

As a man I reacted to this. For me to hold back tears is a bad idea.

Let them flow,
- they wash pain from you,
- they cause the release of endorphins

I once did not cry for about 10 years, and that was a bad decision for me.

To be human is to feel pain,
there is no virtue in pretending not to be hurt - we all are hurt in some way.

What does it benefit you to wear the mask of not crying
The tears will run down your face anyway and appear from behind the mask.
Others around you know you are crying on the inside,
if not on the outside. So it is stronger to be real and let the inner match the outer.

Just some thoughts

 

[tducey]

Good for you. I'm all for equal rights between man and woman.