I think i was too honest about myself to a girl i like

[Toni]

These days all my concentration seems to be on myself and on my problems. Chatting is difficult for me ,my mind just goes blank when its my turn to talk in discussion. What i try to say is because my concentration is on my self and i dont know how to talk about things i dont care about I talked about myself then. I dont know how to talk "small talk" i like to get straigth to the point and i dont understand social codes or whatever.
So theres this girl i like and i think it was like when i want to know someone i thought i tell little bit about myself to tell what im like, but im scared that i told too much and drive her away. Im way too honest i think.
I dont know how to approach. Also i dont know if she likes me or not. I tend to sometimes form romantic feelings to people that show intrest about me.

 

[Toni]

Im just going to post here, theres no need for new thread. I realised i dont really know how other people feel or think, im kinda blind to that. Ofcourse no one is mind reader, but theres somekinda connection that feels off somehow. I misread other people and their motives and relation to me. It makes being with other people kinda hard because i dont know sometimes how to react to them.

 

[Maelstrom]

These days all my concentration seems to be on myself and on my problems. Chatting is difficult for me ,my mind just goes blank when its my turn to talk in discussion. What i try to say is because my concentration is on my self and i dont know how to talk about things i dont care about I talked about myself then. I dont know how to talk "small talk" i like to get straigth to the point and i dont understand social codes or whatever.
So theres this girl i like and i think it was like when i want to know someone i thought i tell little bit about myself to tell what im like, but im scared that i told too much and drive her away. Im way too honest i think.
I dont know how to approach. Also i dont know if she likes me or not. I tend to sometimes form romantic feelings to people that show intrest about me.

It's okay....I have done it too, I like to be honest but learning how much to share with whom, when is difficult. But the more you talk with the ladies the easier it gets, so keep trying Toni ,

My advice is if you can't think of something to say ask a question about their life or interests most people like talking about those things and will hardly notice they are doing most of the talking.

Good luck on things Toni....remember the more you do it the easier it gets....the easier it gets the more chance you get of having lick smile on you.
Don't feel bad if you crash and burn....try to learn something new from it so it goes better the next time.

Good luck in life Maelstrom

 

[nowwhat]

If learning more about you, too early or otherwise drives her away, there was no possibility of a relationship working anyway.