Im bisexual but i cant tell anyone

[Annaa]

I like girls and boys, I wouldn't mind dating either but I literally can't tell anyone.
Most of my friends are homophobic, my mother is a believing Muslim so she'd never accept me.
I want girls and I want to tell other girls that I'm also for the girls but I don't know how.
I don't wanna pretend to be straight but I also don't wanna be hated

 

[Outsider]

If you live in western country finding a girl shouldn't be a problem. All you have to do is to go to a gay bar. There are bars for male and female homosexuals in every major city.

 

[Rodafina]

If you live in western country finding a girl shouldn't be a problem. All you have to do is to go to a gay bar. There are bars for male and female homosexuals in every major city.

@Outsider, Annaa is 16 years old.

 

[Rodafina]

@Annaa,
What you describe sounds like a really tough situation, and I'm sorry to hear about how you are feeling. Can you identify any friends that might be understanding? Is there anyone you know that might be gay or bisexual, too? I'm thinking that it would be useful for you to have someone in your life to talk to about these things. Does your school have any resources like a guidance counselor or a school therapist that you could talk about this with?

This doesn't do much good now, but I would imagine that as you get older you will have more opportunities to be yourself and find people to have romantic relationships with.

Here's a few online resources that you may be able to utilize. I think at this stage it is really important for you to continue to discover who you are and develop a sense of confidence and pride in that. You deserve to be whatever you want to be and I think with the right knowledge, support, and patience you will be able to live your life as you like.

LGBT National Youth Talk Line

Info and Resources for LBGTQ+ Teens and Allies

The Trevor Project

 

[Outsider]

@Outsider, Annaa is 16 years old.

Sorry for giving wrong advice.

 

[Aspychata]

You are young, you are discovering yourself. l had a daughter that decided she didn't want to be a female. Then around her twenties, her views shifted. So you are still forming your opinions. Give yourself sometime to discover who you are. Thank you for coming here to discuss a very personal matter. That shows a lot of maturity on your part.

 

[Annaa]

If you live in western country finding a girl shouldn't be a problem. All you have to do is to go to a gay bar. There are bars for male and female homosexuals in every major city.

Thank you but I am still a minor ill definitely go to one once I'm an adult though thank you

 

[Annaa]

@Annaa,
What you describe sounds like a really tough situation, and I'm sorry to hear about how you are feeling. Can you identify any friends that might be understanding? Is there anyone you know that might be gay or bisexual, too? I'm thinking that it would be useful for you to have someone in your life to talk to about these things. Does your school have any resources like a guidance counselor or a school therapist that you could talk about this with?

This doesn't do much good now, but I would imagine that as you get older you will have more opportunities to be yourself and find people to have romantic relationships with.

Here's a few online resources that you may be able to utilize. I think at this stage it is really important for you to continue to discover who you are and develop a sense of confidence and pride in that. You deserve to be whatever you want to be and I think with the right knowledge, support, and patience you will be able to live your life as you like.

LGBT National Youth Talk Line

Info and Resources for LBGTQ+ Teens and Allies

The Trevor Project

Thank you so much really, I'm still definitely a little ashamed of my own identity to be honest, mostly because of all the religious predijudice (I don't know how to write that word) I grew up with but I'll try to accept myself and I really hope to one day be able to be as brave and confident with my identity as all the other lgbtq+ people.

 

[Annaa]

You are young, you are discovering yourself. l had a daughter that decided she didn't want to be a female. Then around her twenties, her views shifted. So you are still forming your opinions. Give yourself sometime to discover who you are. Thank you for coming here to discuss a very personal matter. That shows a lot of maturity on your part.

Thank youuuu

 

[Gerontius]

Thank you so much really, I'm still definitely a little ashamed of my own identity to be honest, mostly because of all the religious predijudice (I don't know how to write that word) I grew up with but I'll try to accept myself and I really hope to one day be able to be as brave and confident with my identity as all the other lgbtq+ people.

"Prejudice" is the English of it.

Here is a little something. You are 16, and it's all right not to have everything figured out at 16--good to learn lots of things, like how to bank and work and study, but as for the identity stuff, that comes with time and years.

I am 26 and still haven't figured it all out. I found out I'm asexual. That is quite all right and doesn't make me any less of a man (the fact that I question my gender might be more of the problem there, but I digress. from the subject.)

Religions are often very complicated on the LGBT+ subject. Yet throughout history they often end up a haven for LGBTQ people.