Thank you. I just dreading when the usual posters reply here.
Dude, the "usual posters" say what they do because they want to help. I'm betting I come to mind when you say that, and I'll just put it this way: Do you think I'd waste my time if I wasnt ACTUALLY trying to help, or if I wasnt caring enough to help? The fact that I'm still trying to help despite your usual responses says something, though I'm guessing you dont see that.
People here want the best for you. But you dont seem to be able to see that.
Now as for the current situation, er...
I'll just echo what tree said: What are you doing that's going to make people come up to you?
But also, here's another one: People don't go to places like a bloody forest or a grassy park with the expectation of finding a partner or some nonsense... even if there's an event there (the area I live in does this sort of thing a lot, which is what happens when there's like 17 parks in easy driving distance). They go to a park because, you know, nature. Being outside. When an event isn't happening and the park is just, you know, a normal park, people often go there to get AWAY from others. To enjoy nature. Solitude is often a priority... often the entire goal. That's why people dont flock to parks in large crowds in most areas. In those cases, they are there for the direct opposite of what you seem to think these places are for.
And during an event? They're probably going with friends, parents, brother or sister, partner, or you know, people they know. Heck, maybe there'll be a group that's there as part of a business outing, who knows? They don't go expecting to end up married at the end of the bloody year to someone they met there. They don't even go expecting to make a new acquaintance.
And even if that WAS the case... nobody is going to go up to someone and start adoring them simply because they existed on a bench or whatever.
Seriously, the way you talk about these places is just not how any of that works. Nor is that what any of it is for. That may not be what you WANT to hear, but that is simply how it is... like it or not. That's not to say that there cant ever be exceptions, but... going in there EXPECTING to be the exception is silly.
Also I'm going to echo what Nitro said too: At this point, nobody here can help you get what you want, no matter how many of these topics you make. We advise... but nothing gets through, and you listen to none of it.
You need assistance on a level that nobody here can do for you. It might be time to seriously consider going to a professional, if you aren't already doing so.
There, I'm done.
