I'm part of one church now I mean it.

[Tony Ramirez]

After much pain mentally and physically from much ostracizing I now decided on one church. This one. The one I pericuded because of the pain the past and new church I tried out hurt me so. Hope was the most supportive and actually opened and accepted me right away without ostracized me from day one.

I was just blindsided and had black and white thinking actually being ostracized from other churches and places thinking they were doing the same when they were not.

The real sign from God was at a friend's funeral when I sat next to the church family with our respects and they all cared for her and each others even me. I saw that God wanted me here and only wanted me to stay connected to my other great friend from my old church.

Of course I did not listen and still went to morning service with the new church I tried for 3 weeks where I been ignored more each week. This week was the worst when not one person said hi or anything. I was ignored when even newcomers were greeted. I nearly passed out from vertigo ostracism dizziness and no one cared to say anything to me. I went to the park event where I was ignored so bad I had to call my married friend who she helped me.

God told me that the church Hope and her as my friend to stay with are the only ones to connect to. I did not listen but now I know. From Wednesday I will try to listen.

 

[Kitsuna]

The head pastor of Hope CC seems really genuine and welcoming.

I’m happy that you’ve been able to find a church that’s been a positive experience for you and I hope it’ll be a good support system!

 

[Tony Ramirez]

The head pastor of Hope CC seems really genuine and welcoming.

I’m happy that you’ve been able to find a church that’s been a positive experience for you and I hope it’ll be a good support system!

He is. The first day he invited me to sit with him and his family to break bread.

He has been talking to me as a consultant. He does that to anyone who needs that even newcomers like that women Suzanne I talked to. The old pastor at TGC never did that the associate with whenever he felt at it. The PTSD who is going to get a hateful direct message Park Slope ostracized Community felt like college church did not even talk to me or anyone said a word by week 3. I know where I am welcomed.

 

[vergil96]

I'm glad to hear you've found a community that works out for you, finally. You have to keep on looking, decent people are out there. It takes time and effort. Good communities and good friends aren't easy to find. But it's very much worth it.

 

[Tony Ramirez]

Your right I guess third time a charm.
1 charm HOME | Gateway City Church | A Place to Belong | 267 Bay Ridge Ave. Brooklyn, NY 11220 5 years eventually ostracized then 15 years backsliding
2 charm Trinity Grace Church 5 years then ostracized by former friend hurt greatly by a textationship, kicked out of life group lost most friends, one good friend left
3 times a charm Church | Hope Community, NYC 3 months so far rocky start but improving know I am accepted
4 PTSD ostracized Park Slope Community Church 3 weeks nearly cracked up bye bye loser's

 

[Tony Ramirez]

What a polar opposite experience at my church I am at now. I even approached a new attractive women and she actually talked to me about moving to New York we chatted for a few minutes.

Even people I knew and some I were astray talked to me. I am also meeting the pastor again for a chatting hangout.

 

[Tony Ramirez]

Also spam there Instagram Facebook and other socials with negative comments church 4 with all the PTSD crap they did. I could have been in the hospital if it was not for my good friend picking up the phone when I was in the park being ostracized.